@mmrljstn:

yvonne :

And if that is how you love someone, they should also know how to change, know how to love you in a way that truly matches the love you give. You know you love someone deeply when despite the pain of waiting, despite the endless cycle of sadness, tears, and the heaviness life keeps placing on your shoulders, you still choose to stay in the very situation you never wished to feel. You endure it because you have to, and you have to because something meaningful was built. A bond, a connection, and a love that became too real to simply walk away from. kaya natin, at patuloy na kakayanin.

georgie 🥡 :

I am claiming this, I miss my love 🥺🙏🏻

zel :

but what if i keep waiting for someone who promised to come back, but while i stay loyal, they slowly find someone else?

˗ˏˋ Shirin ˊˎ˗ :

You don't know how much I needed to hear this. Thank you, truly.

reylzh :

And should i wait for someone who is t decisions to ruin their life when they told me they want to become a better version of themselves? Sometimes they may not be worth the wait

user5371937251 :

been there, done that. regretted it in the end because he liked somebody else while i was out there n just waiting for him. glad that he's happy now tho. (im still hurt)

coldbrew :

ahhhh badly need this, just in time

mian ⚡ :

this felt right. thank you.

Kei🪐 :

But nobody talks about how hard waiting for someone is. You can’t predict the future because what if they don’t feel the same way about you anymore? What if ayaw na nila sa’yo? While sa side mo naman, you waited so long for them to come back..

c :

don't enter a relationship when you're not healed.

A. :

WAVYY :

I’m not gonna put my life on pause, since they’re so sure they want to go back to polyamory, the exact thing that hurt them in the past. I would like to try again in the future if they happen to figure out they’re still manogomous and that route is in their life, plus working on themselves mentally to grow, but I’m not gonna wait for them. I’m gonna have my time to heal since they truly did break my heart. I understand they may need time to heal and process whatever this relationship was to them, but so do I, because I put my everything into this just to be broken up with for the very thing they told me at the beginning they weren’t anymore.

Slayleen :

Omg this just assured something in me. Thank you

Trinity Tracey :

I really hope so I miss my girl but hoping this space will clear both our minds

Reagan_paxton :

I’ll wait however long but the moment you give someone else attention in this “healing” time I’m done. Sorry

JJ :

I needed this tbh

mimi 💌 :

this is so true but at the same time some people will say they’ll change and end up changing for the worse instead of better. Sometimes people are just not a good match despite everything and how much love is carried, and that’s okay.

L 𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 :

this screams ambiguity

potchi :

the timing nakakapagod na rin :/

Jacky 💖🎀 :

I claim this

⋆.˚sᡣ𐭩 :

e paano ko nga hihintayin e bumalik sa ex, te

ALEX-ZEUS :

We often talk about waiting for someone, but we rarely talk about the person who’s doing the waiting. They deserve the world too.

José :

Can I get advice plz , I wanna wait but she told she will never come back . I cheated emotionally but never physical but that doesn’t excuse that I did . But I do love her. I still have our pictures . I’m scared that she will find someone . She tells me to move on but I can’t because she was my first love . And we were going to get married and we were talking about our future kids .

Ems :

I’m working so much on myself - but what if I am coming back to a person who hurt me once and maybe isn’t doing THE inner work? He said he would give me time, but one month passed and he hasn’t reached out.