@healingbythenumbers_: Your final goodbye won’t feel like a dramatic movie moment, no matter how much you want it to. Nope. The last interaction you will ever have is likely to be PAINFULLY ordinary. And if that happens, it does NOT mean your relationship wasn’t harmful, or meaningful, or important to both of you. Just trust me on this. Follow along @Healingbythenumbers for the final week of Escape Plan. #EscapePlan #DomesticViolenceAwareness #LeavingAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #SurvivorStory
you said in previous videos that he was acting a little suspicious of you. then said in another he extended his work trip forward. was there a part of you that thought he was trying to catch you out ? like he'd return a few hours later ?
2026-05-17 13:06:49
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Erynn 🍄 :
Normally you sit in your videos, but now you stand right as the motion begins in your plan. Really nice symbolism 🙃
2026-05-17 13:36:00
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Jennifer :
if my current partner gave me a one armed hug when leaving on a trip I would truly question if that man really loved me.
2026-05-17 13:41:41
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BIG LU 🫧 :
The way you’re sharing this deserves applause. You put ideas into reality and convey the intensity and difficulty in an experience that’s often not shared. Your bravery is commended.
2026-05-17 13:06:35
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Sara not Sar-raH :
our last moment together as husband and wife was him telling me I was a bad mother in the waiting room of our 3 week old's pediatrician's office. 25 years later, I still remember every word
2026-05-17 17:12:00
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Blessed_Bobbitt :
I know this feeling exactly, at 18 I left home and I didn’t tell anyone it was for the best I just cut all contact and start over. I cleaned up my dishes, cleaned up my room, went out to my folks bedroom it wasn’t something I ever did anymore, but I knew it was the last time. Lied said I needed a bandaid, stood in the doorway said goodnight they didn’t even pay me any mind, glued to the tv, walked out to my bedroom closed the door and just stood there like, that is our last moment. They didn’t even look at me when they said night. I replayed it for months.
2026-05-18 00:27:28
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morgan22 :
when i broke the news, i let him go to his parents for dinner (said i wasn’t feeling well and would stay home) and did it on a sunday night so he could go to work in the morning for a distraction. how kind was i to STILL think of the other person before myself in such a situation…ugh
2026-05-17 13:13:04
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Moonlight :
I dont know if youve touched on this before but I wanted to ask. From what ive been following, you have tried to leave but always came back until this. How close were you to leaving before this? Did you have a bag packed and plans made or was it just spur of the moment type of situation?
2026-05-17 13:05:15
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Dandy System🇦🇺 :
I’m so proud that you’ve made this and made it this far. Keep going. All the hugs.
2026-05-18 09:04:26
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Andy M ❤️ :
I’m so nervous even though I’m fully aware you made it out 🥹🙏🏾.
2026-05-17 13:09:29
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Angel🍉 :
❤️thank you for posting these
2026-05-17 13:05:04
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genxjoyce465❌ :
I’ve been waiting all day to see your videos!!
2026-05-17 21:41:46
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haley🖤✨ :
I’ve never been this early before omg I cannot wait to watch this escape full movie pan out. You’re such a strong person digging all this back up to share with us all
2026-05-17 13:10:09
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Haley Kilfian :
I've never commented before but I've seen a lot of these on my fyp! I'm kinda "glad" you didn't have a long emotional goodbye, just because you said he was acting a little suspicious and who knows if you would've tried for a long emotional goodbye he would've somehow figured it out and not went. But I totally understand what you are saying!
2026-05-18 01:09:49
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Sam :
My story is so very similar to yours in a lot of ways. I planned ahead the same way you did, I moved out when he left town. None of your videos have brought me to tears quite the way this one did. I wanted to hold the emotional weight of that last evening/morning together but he had no idea. It will have been 3 years this December.
2026-05-17 15:51:38
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Pats :
Walking away to continue the plan 👏 you are so strong. Thank you for sharing
2026-05-17 16:53:37
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KiwiJam :
I'm honestly surprised, when he suspected you were planning to leave, that he went on the trip at all!
2026-05-17 20:21:02
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G :
I love how you are bringing action into the story of your actions. I knew you are a badass but knowing more of your story I am so proud of what you did. and thankful for your moments of luck
2026-05-17 17:40:40
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Nicky Oltman310 :
Thank you for sharing your journey.
2026-05-18 21:52:09
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Me-my-cats-and-crochet :
I know exactly how you felt.
I have now been single longer than I've been married.
2026-05-17 21:58:44
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Elizabeth :
I’ve been nonstop watching these videos up until just now. Such a fantastic series ❤️
2026-05-17 15:15:33
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Ms AuDHD - FREE PALESTINE 🇵🇸 :
I remember that last goodbye. I had all the same feelings too. I think it's absolutely normal and really powerful to be sharing that ❤️
2026-05-17 14:40:25
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hallzy_h :
Ive NEVER BEEN SO EARLY!!! GOD IM ON THE EDGE OF MY SEAT!!
2026-05-17 13:17:38
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Michelle :
Oh I'm soo excited!
2026-05-17 16:50:16
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✨️✨️Andrea✨️✨️ :
shes up everybody ❤️im so proud of you
2026-05-17 14:55:07
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