@xry.ghst: One person thinks: “I hid it to protect the relationship from unnecessary conflict.” While the other person feels: “If you knew it would hurt me, why continue doing it secretly?” Both emotions can exist at the same time. That’s why relationships become complicated. Because people are not only dealing with actions, they’re also dealing with intentions, fear, trust, boundaries, trauma, ego, communication, and emotional safety. Most people already know when something has the potential to hurt, disrespect, confuse, or trigger insecurity in their partner. That’s where the issue usually starts. Not always in the action itself, but in the secrecy surrounding it. Because hiding changes the meaning of things. Bakit pa kasi kailangan gawin kung alam naman makakasakit. #selfreminder #fyp #lifelessons #blowthisup #reality

tinaydejesus :

"andami kodin naman napansin sayong mali, pero mas pinili kong manahimik para walang away" hindi naman away ang pagsasabe ng mga nararamdaman

sweet :

pakipost sa ig pls 😂

ultraviolence :

on his fyp pls

pototoy’s badiday :

His fyp, not mine

diz :

Grabe tagos na tagos yung sakit ahh

lexxii :

idk pero abt sa past ko ang itinago ko at matagal ng kinalimutan, it’s not because nililihim ko pero kasi ako yung tipo ng taong hindi na sinasabi kapag kinalimutan ko na not until he found out lahat nngyari sa past ko and he’s mad and ended into breakup. I mean valid naman reason nya pero kasi bakit feeling ko ambabaw☹️There’s no cheating nalaman nya lang kung sino mga nakausap ko. Ang sabi nya mas masakit kung sya mismo ang nakadiskubre. Thats alr my past🥺

'Cali :

block na po kita, sakit na talaga

Jo :

nagtatampo ako pero mali, naiintindihan ko naman siya pero bakit may tampo parin ako

Dabid, law in progress :

Agree. Temporary conflict is always better than permanent damage. Kung wala ka talagang ginawang mali, hindi mo dapat kailangang itago.

u :

eh paano kung walang pagiintindi?

noellee :

Oksi na, iniwan ko na, nahihirapan na magsinungaling

shebagged :

very well said!

jae :

bat ang hirap para saken umamin? nasira ko relasyon namin dahil sa pag tatago ng mga bagay na takot ako na malaman nya

Aj :

how bout people na gusto magsabi kaso lagi di naiintindihan

Rai :

hindi naman kasalan ang magsabi ng totoo.

Miwako🍓 :

Rel8

AG :

Nakakarami ka na po miss ma’am, pero bak pwede sa fyp nya please huhu

adobong ampalaya :

mahirap sabihin

Kirs.rhxnm :

Grabeee ang mga wordss ni ate huh, masakwt

pretty :

frr hahah

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the timig

trixielyn :

wooohhhh

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