you speaking my mind boss, I told my mum and aunties that if time comes i don't want to do an exaggerated chilanga MULILO I want it to be as simple as possible with only a fill people, not nefyama dress kuno nauko, ma photo booth ma installation I don't even plan to go for photos at the grooms place, I love beautiful things and I just turned thirty but I love tradition aswel, I always hope and pray that I might inspire someone else to do exactly that, I can attest that the pressure comes from the people around us but I refused to be pressured ine
2026-06-02 08:43:53
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user1417949910546 :
well spoken but people don't understand,
2026-06-06 05:43:45
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Jemmmyyy22 :
It feels illegal to get such wisdom for free but we greatly appreciate you for this🙏🏽❤️
2026-06-03 11:48:24
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Chocho🥰😘🥰 :
The truth in this elo the volume has to be increased 😊
2026-06-03 12:51:00
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C🌺rol📍 :
Even five plates is enough 🥰🥰
2026-06-01 19:29:42
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cleopatrahfavourkasembe01 :
I’m sharing this 🙏
2026-06-05 17:25:52
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💖miss mushe 🌏💎💍 :
I have learnt before i do it lol pressure
2026-06-03 15:11:53
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comfort babe :
someone to bring me here🙏✍️
2026-06-02 08:56:24
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nolz54 :
Work within your means indeed🙏
2026-06-02 13:04:30
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MaggieKambili :
very true and this is what I always tell people...
for me I have told my Mum that we will just cook ifinono and few people only close relatives,
2026-05-29 08:01:01
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Maimba :
🤝🤝🤝🤝well said, ine personally l dont pay for chilanga mulilo but l will buy a chicken and a case of drinks or water
2026-06-01 04:33:50
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Sharon Mungongaila aka Jagaban :
Ala umungulu wama committee ine walimpeshya.... it hasn't sat well with me. Thank you for making it very clear.
2026-05-23 01:23:51
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Paul Mdzakazi Phiri :
Profound wisdom there sir.
2026-06-02 11:24:17
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I-am-Masuka👑💎🦋 :
I would also like to hear you talk about amatebeto
2026-05-21 13:26:14
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Uncle b :
You are a wise man sir. But please make these videos whilst not driving,I'm always worrying about your safety when you're driving whilst looking at the camera. Maybe it's just me, but kudos to the wisdom you're giving us.
2026-05-26 20:18:48
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prisca :
learnt something
2026-06-02 06:14:40
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Luis Tina :
Well articulated Dad 🙏🙏
2026-05-23 18:53:00
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ngambochingandu :
Even us Family Members they put us in committees to raise money.
2026-05-25 12:14:06
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female king 😚 :
Perfect teachings 🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-19 07:31:39
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Maviya Makh’oza :
I’m my culture it’s called “ roora celebration day” the man comes to pay the roora(libola to the brides place” then a day is set when the brides family invites the grooms family they prepare traditional foods for the grooms family to welcome/ or recognize them to be part of the family
2026-05-17 17:35:15
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maggie :
very true
2026-06-04 06:14:08
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Phil143 :
part 2
2026-06-03 08:41:00
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