@vianee.bastalingum: → Some relationships slowly disconnect you from yourself. You start ignoring red flags. Overexplaining disrespect. Confusing inconsistency with love. And one day you realize you’ve been abandoning yourself just to keep the relationship alive. I think healing changes what we’re willing to tolerate. At this point in my life, peace is attractive. Clear communication is attractive. Consistency is attractive. Because love should not leave you constantly anxious, confused, or emotionally exhausted. Hope this reminds someone that healthy love feels safe, not chaotic. #Relationship #personalgrowth #becoming #healing #mindsetshift

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oceannelg
Océ :
💯 Please continue sharing your knowledge and experience.
2026-05-19 18:01:18
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vishlfc82
20 times :
Amazing advice 👌
2026-05-21 00:21:03
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dorellecoonjah
Dorelle :
Making someone your entire world is very dangerous indeed.
2026-06-21 08:35:51
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user025187856
The One And Only :
Potential does not comfort you during hard times. Love that. Great perspective.
2026-05-24 06:07:20
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jim.bryan.bond
Jim Bryan Bond :
r u married?
2026-05-31 21:39:00
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amitabh.bachpan2
Amitabh Bachpan :
I hate that its so true!
2026-06-13 18:04:38
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narraidoovidyani
vidyani :
so true...
2026-05-17 17:54:35
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vil.merc
vil.merc :
Indeed. But #1, people don't change.
2026-05-20 16:23:23
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vikki_99
vikki_99 :
Giiiiiiirl! You are too good!
2026-05-22 12:27:23
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high_key_1404
RoH :
2026-05-20 17:08:40
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hellmnlnsj9
Mysterious_stranger. 999 :
i love ur videos. so realistic. keep spreading the lessons about life. It will surely inspire lots of people.
2026-05-21 03:48:11
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sherry3574
Sheherazade :
You are Awesome♥️♥️♥️Thank you so much for these beautiful words
2026-05-23 16:36:04
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snehaa.bdh
🤍 :
period
2026-05-19 19:25:53
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user2142705993473
Kumar :
top
2026-05-20 05:12:21
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ahaban20
cS :
no lies detected !!!
2026-05-20 02:29:56
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vin00700
Vin :
you're so right dr. really liked ur vids..
2026-05-19 16:48:44
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vandanamakeupartist1
Vandana Makeup Artist :
so damn true dear..😳 loving potential instead of who they are can ruin things in the future...
2026-05-19 05:08:32
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yuvna_
Yuvna :
T bienn jolie!! 🌷😊
2026-05-19 21:44:06
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user17292996586337
user17292996586337 :
So on point!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2026-05-19 09:22:47
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user17292996586337
user17292996586337 :
Again.... Amazing🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-05-19 09:21:38
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waheeda2667
Waheeda2667 :
you speak so well and its soo true whay you are saying. Thank you👌❤️❤️🥰
2026-05-19 16:47:44
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maneisharamla
Esha’s :
That’s true 🥺
2026-07-14 06:13:12
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angel193430
angel193430 :
Well said... every words relate really to what you say and as women we choose to look for love in somebody else instead of loving ourselves n make ourselves priority for own peace of mind🥰🥰🥰🥰
2026-05-29 16:21:15
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k491496
K♡ :
😳😳😳
2026-05-20 02:02:47
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user17292996586337
user17292996586337 :
💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
2026-05-19 09:21:16
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