@fovlife: You slowly realize that healing is not always becoming happier, sometimes it is simply becoming less affected, less reactive, less hopeful about certain things, you stop expecting the same effort, the same honesty, the same depth from people because experience taught you how inconsistent humans can be, and from the outside it looks like maturity, like emotional control, but deep down a part of you knows the truth, you did not stop feeling deeply, you just learned that feeling deeply in the wrong places eventually destroys you. #fovlife #fyp #viral #aesthetic