@rev.sydney.finn: Replying to @Nia I hope this clears things up! Also, one more thing I wanted to mention… I get comments from people who say things like “no Sydney, this is about decentering fathers, brothers, and no longer considering other men above ourselves.” I consider that to be garden variety codependency, it’s not new. #relationshipadviceforwomen #datingadviceforwomen #relationshipadvice #datinginyour30s #datingadvice
And then one of the women who spoke the most about decentering men is having a baby and is married. I believe it's just intrasexual competition that they say that so that there's less competition around
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Kizza :
magnificent!
2026-06-07 23:07:58
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TC :
I love a lot of your content. But this video is tea! You’re being honest and I love to hear women say yes love is important to me, But I also am important to myself BOTH can be true! I appreciate YOUR honesty. Thank you your content helps me through my own anxiety in my relationship.
2026-05-17 19:48:51
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Sonia Z. :
I agree so much. I have everything else besides a loving relationship. I live my life every day and do what I want hobbies etc and want love too
2026-05-18 05:11:08
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Kate 📚 Dating Wisdom :
Are you in a relationship? ❤️
2026-05-20 13:50:11
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akari :
I think this also can apply to maintaining close friendships. Love should not be an after thought in your life, it’s an active of practice in all of your relationships and it should be involved in whatever you do b/c it keeps you open, hopeful, and evolving.
2026-05-17 21:02:58
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Nathan :
I appreciate your content in that it has helped me internally focus on what matters. these videos have given me perspective that there are still people that choose love instead of convenience. thank you
2026-05-18 05:36:33
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F.A :
I want two things only;
to be me (anything I need to do to be that)
and love,i need it sooooooo bad
2026-05-18 15:39:49
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ju!! :
louderrr and you’re so funny
2026-05-17 20:06:00
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Lydia Evangeline :
Took an emotional risk with him and it went so much better than I thought 😌
2026-05-18 13:16:10
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ket :
Never deny yourself of something your soul yearns for 💕
2026-05-21 20:50:33
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TheHottieBookWorm :
I can't even begin to tell you how your content is changing my life! I have ocd so my mind is alwaysss trying to see the worst in things, and you are seriously helping me heal my nervous system! my finding love journey is honestly exposure therapy for me and it's scary as he'll, but I'm committed to myself and to love.
2026-05-18 07:19:16
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lucy 🐦⬛ :
I am 26 and still struggling so much with finding love. It is indeed a very deep pain most people just don’t understand. And i feel so alone.
2026-05-20 14:24:01
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Phylisia :
& this is why I love your content
2026-05-18 19:20:07
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TonyLawson :
It’s nice to be loving.
2026-05-22 13:17:08
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Lily ✨💖 :
You are a breath of fresh air. I genuinely love your content and your perspective which is SOOO different from mine. I am so happy and blessed to have found you and listen to a different point of view that sounds at times like an awakening , thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-17 22:48:45
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The Smut Doctor📚 :
I agree with you 100% it’s important to me
2026-05-18 06:27:28
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St. Resse :
Keep grinding.. you are a beautiful woman in and out.
2026-05-18 23:42:10
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Road to notts county :
for you my friend
2026-05-18 07:58:09
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Josh’s Atlas :
Thank you Sydney! I really really value your thoughts and this is helping me with my own journey.
2026-05-18 17:13:36
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miranda.ysb :
This made me follow you!
2026-05-18 02:38:04
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Flurr87🇨🇦🇺🇸 :
regardless of the content I love her reactions and the way she explains things lol
2026-05-17 23:01:33
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