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I won't say it's okay and I won't say it's not. Either way, just let it be. At the end of the day, we're all just humans who are trying their best to just live, and we'll make a lot of imperfections along the way, and that's just a part of being human. And I think that there's a sense of comfort knowing we all have our imperfections.
They didn't deserve what happened to them, and so did what they did to you. Sit with your emotions, let them feel, and it doesn't have to be okay, especially if you did not deserve it. Acknowledge that it wasn't right, that it wasn't okay. The more you try to force yourself that everything is fine, you might delay yourself from healing. You can't fix something you keep pretending isn't there. So please be kind to yourself, and don't minimize whatever you went through. It's also worth noting that you shouldn't hold anything towards someone because it only gives them power on what you feel and it will only end up hurting you more. It's not about 'letting it slide', but it's acknowledging that what happened to you wasn't okay, and that's on them not on you. ✌️
2026-05-29 18:07:08