@healingbythenumbers_: This close to the end, remember to consider more than just your own safety. If there are people or places your abuser may go hunting for you (friends, family members, old addresses, etc.), try to warn them ahead of time. ❌ Not to create panic.
❌ Not to turn anyone against your partner. Just to make sure the the people around you aren’t caught up in the fallout of your relationship. And if you feel guilty about doing this, believe me, you are not alone. Follow along for the final week of Escape Plan. #EscapePlan #DomesticViolenceAwareness #SafetyPlanning #CoerciveControl #EmotionalAbuse
Dr. Ruth | That Was Abuse
Region: US
Monday 18 May 2026 17:01:00 GMT
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TLS :
Did you warn your job?
2026-05-18 17:08:09
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serotonin.machine :
Did they ask/did you ask what they should communicate to him if he reached out?
2026-05-18 17:15:45
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Barbie Organizes her Empire :
everyone offering help and she still felt guilty. it ia a sign you doing right, when people offer directly help♥️
2026-05-18 17:23:50
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Emily Spinach :
To anyone listening to Ruth’s story who isn’t out yet: Please let people help you! It is an honor to help loved ones. The guilty feelings Ruth shared are typical and totally understandable: Don’t let that stop you from saying yes if you do need their help.
2026-05-18 17:53:30
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Mariana Castiglione :
I am not in a DV situation and never have been, but I've been following your journey and with time I've come to realise how helpful this might be for people who are currently living or have lived situations of abuse. Thank you ❤️
2026-05-18 17:17:18
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po :
at every step, im amazed by the people in your life. Becky for thinking about warning those 2, and those 2 for being so understanding and supportive
2026-05-18 17:42:17
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Tori :
I'm so happy you got out in time
2026-05-18 17:04:00
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ALEXANDRA 🫀 :
so early to this and so anxious even tho i know ur out, ur so strong!!! congratulations :) 💗
2026-05-18 17:04:01
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Kourtney Campbell :
Love the Bon Jovi shirt! Thank you for sharing your story!!
2026-05-18 17:03:50
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brandoncornish1 :
My mom went through something very similar years back. Your story truly opened my eyes to where her mind may have been during that time💜💜 thank you for sharing your story. Long time viewer first time commenting. I look forward to your posts daily.
2026-05-18 17:10:00
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super_funyan :
I've been invested in your story for a long time. This is like a series ending where I'm literally on the edge of my seat and cheering you on to get out (even though I know you're safe now)
2026-05-18 17:36:11
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Luna McAndrew :
Wow, so earlier..I am glad you got out.
2026-05-18 17:12:41
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Kelley :
Whooooo Did you warn!!!
2026-05-18 17:28:20
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SEmmag :
When I left my ex this was something I didn't do and had to apologise for and it turns out the people I apologise to really nice about it and was glad I was out of the relationship.
2026-05-18 17:21:50
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blaire 💿 :
the way you tell your story makes it feel much less than just a story you hear of and move past, it’s life changing and brings to light everything survivors go through, it’s a creative way to make people realize that these aren’t just stories but that real people like you live through this, keep going strong ❤️
2026-05-18 17:15:47
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k i e r a ✨ :
Endlessly glad you had and have a Becky in your life !
2026-05-18 17:12:27
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The Purpose Project :
Such a fascinating journey that really sheds light on this reality for so many
2026-05-18 17:13:31
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Caz/Crow✨️🍓🐞 :
youre so strong for going through this 💜
2026-05-18 17:05:30
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Amy ✨ :
I'm so happy you got out! you're so strong 💜
2026-05-18 17:07:04
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Big Girl Games - G7 :
I’m glad they were safe to tell.
2026-05-21 17:57:15
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Shiikah :
thank you for sharing all of this
2026-05-18 18:50:09
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PepsiMaxu :
I only got recommended your video today and I have binged your entire playlist and I have found it healing, it reminded me so much of what my mom went through and it helped me find words I didn't have for what I saw. Thank you
2026-05-19 18:45:01
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Zoie Lujan :
was that other person his mom or sibling
2026-05-18 18:23:14
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Georgie :
I’m so early 💕💕💕
2026-05-18 17:04:45
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Game design and kitties :
One thing that amazes me here is you're a normal person who went through some amazingly tough times and you turn out to be someone who's very good at explaining such things to other people.
2026-05-18 23:55:27
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