@scott.austin.martin: Nobody taught men how to regulate pain. So they learned distance instead of honesty. Anger instead of grief. Performance instead of closeness. Work instead of identity. Then society called the adaptation masculinity. Most men do not even realize they are in survival mode. They think survival is their personality. That is what my coaching work, and my books are actually about. Helping men tune back into the internal compass that was always there. Link in bio. #nervoussystem #relationships #relationshiptips #menscoach #masculinity
No body taught me either and look at me, very connected to myself.
2026-05-25 16:55:22
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lindaisabel :
his fyp thanks
2026-05-19 01:58:49
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mxgregg :
Do you have a book to help with this? I’m reading Safe right now.
2026-06-10 15:36:08
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Enya Sophia 🥀 :
Hey, Ima send you a private message. Hope thats okay
2026-05-29 02:12:40
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🦋 Ty 🦋 :
I love what you talk about! My partner is 29 and struggles with lots of these topics, is there a book you’d recommend for him to read?
2026-05-29 23:08:00
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Bonnie Howard :
would you happen to have a book list of your books displayed?
2026-05-18 23:54:31
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psicologiafeminista :
Que triste. Tanto dolor que se podría haber evitado.
2026-05-30 13:33:41
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Fadia Abu Samra :
ja.
2026-05-24 03:10:34
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AC :
Emotional intelligence is important for all
2026-05-20 23:20:45
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Nicole :
This!! All of it! I wish…I could share this with him…It so frustrating to know this as a woman and know its not my place to say it. Please keep putting your workout in to the world. Every time I come across you I am validated. THANK YOU!
2026-05-18 22:07:45
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Creative Consciousness Rising :
You are so spot on
2026-05-19 12:54:45
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Girlmom :
So sad. Marriage broke down because of that.
2026-05-19 01:40:59
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coocoomenthu :
this is why my 11 year relationship broke down and I left. no matter how or what I said, no matter what he said... nothing changed. a relationship can't happen when only one person is actually trying to connect
2026-05-19 19:02:30
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username2952740171 :
yaaaaaaas 👏
2026-05-19 04:30:51
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TerryMc :
You might talk about how, instead of just giving a name to fhe problem here
2026-05-19 02:46:44
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RosieRosie :
This is my husband to a T
2026-05-19 14:08:25
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Merry Mary631 🇨🇦 🇮🇪 :
Brilliant
2026-05-21 19:43:33
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Pressure Practice :
The internal compass is there behind that surviving mask. First admit your pain, second believe the nervous system is not who you are.
2026-06-01 13:19:50
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KLD :
understood totally, however do the work don't just sit it in...we all have to
2026-05-27 14:44:14
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Sandie :
I really like what you’re saying. It’s so true that many men were not taught these things. Not their fault. Nervous system capacity is key
2026-05-19 21:18:06
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Rebecca♓️👑💋 :
💯
2026-05-23 20:29:05
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Casey :
Yes I love you and everything you’re saying b/c I’m so sick of being patient and kind to dangerous men, and ya know what, no one taught me that shit either! I can’t speak for my whole gender but ik I’ve always been kind and respectful and men will never listen to me so thank you for helping us…
2026-05-19 04:48:13
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