“Empathy without boundaries is not kindness…it is self abandonment dressed up in a cape” 🥊✨
2026-05-19 05:55:51
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Free2BMe :
strong boundaries are needed for peace of mind
2026-05-19 02:13:30
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Je Suis Moi :
Especially with relatives who think disrespect and disregard should be normalized
2026-05-19 05:44:39
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Sophhhh :
Thank you auntie
2026-05-19 20:10:53
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Maz :
Empaths and anxious attachments like me, fall into this pattern. Self abandonment is punishing yourself for giving to the wrong people.
2026-05-22 19:01:34
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Armani :
Now I’m tired of everyone and don’t want anyone near me. 😭 I just want to be *left alone*.
2026-05-22 11:50:39
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J_KendrickFit :
This book has helped me with this:
2026-05-30 15:25:31
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Tisha Gream :
You came into my FYP (and my life) at just the right time.
2026-05-18 23:26:07
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courtniedh :
Boundaries have to be stronger than your empathy! That’s one powerful sentence!
2026-06-22 19:10:57
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janemcginn8 :
Protect your energy like your life depends on it. Because it does.🥰🥰
2026-05-19 00:12:52
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tinaberry2323 :
This message came to me right on time...
2026-06-04 05:40:18
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sandra :
yes auntie, i’m trying 😭😭😭😭😭
2026-05-21 17:52:16
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Maria🧿 :
Empathy without boundaries is not kindness…it is self abandonment dressed up in a cape” 🥊✨
2026-06-24 13:58:44
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Sandy Aicinena :
it hurts so bad and so confusing
2026-06-03 04:32:46
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Tiffany Rae :
Thank you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. I wish I would have learned this 20 yrs ago. It took me a long time to figure out out the hard way.
2026-06-02 04:05:36
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Tok…Still Processing :
Something learned the hard way until I reached my max. This version of me protects the peace that I have.
2026-06-09 20:38:01
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Alex Proudfoot :
DrTroyLee Beautiful message
2026-06-24 03:49:28
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tholloway21 :
Absolutely.
2026-06-04 01:07:03
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Olivia :
thank you 💛
2026-06-23 18:11:41
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Pau_Frias :
I learned it in a hard way, but now my boundaries are strong as hell
2026-06-24 17:30:36
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Nicole :
Yes
2026-05-22 00:50:46
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lola_waf :
It’s weird and uncomfortable but very necessary!
2026-06-06 17:58:20
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silly_mama_goose :
Thank you for sharing this. I am struggling, as my oldest child leans on me through the most painful life experiences and it’s difficult not to lose my own peace wanting to help them find theirs.
2026-06-04 13:34:40
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Paige :
I lost count
2026-06-04 12:49:20
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gg :
Yes I did and it cost me my health, my mental health it was really bad… then i decided that I can’t change the person but I did remove myself from this toxicity. Never regretted I’m coming back to myself. Feel amazing 🥰
2026-05-19 09:01:19
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