@the_control_code: 75% of intimate partner homicides occur after she leaves him. (Center for Relationship Abuse Awareness) Of those, approximately 50% within two months of separation and 90% within the first year. (Journal of the American Academy of Psychiatry and the Law, 2015) So why isn’t the system catching it? I’ve transcribed adversarial proceedings for twenty years and I’ll tell you exactly why. The calm is the tell. Not the evidence. #coercivecontrol #thecontrolcode #cognitivesovereignty #familycourt #postseparationabuse

dhsbzgzhsb :

I am so, so greatfull my state had specially trained officers to handle DV complaints when I went in to report it.

Cats and Wine 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 :

It's punishment. Patriarchal punishment. How dare you try to ruin this man's life?... he strangled you? So you say! He's a pillar of the community! Doesn't even have a parking ticket! Silly hysterical women. Stay with your husband. Lose a few pounds. Smile more. Bake a pie. Put out more....

Milla :

We need to save lives. Thank you for speaking up.

TRIEUTOPIA :

Thank you, your work is so important 🙏🏼

Cream puff :

This is exactly how it played out for me 😢

koky.katt :

Thank you for raising awareness and working to protect victims ❤️

Narc-Free & Fabulous :

Thank you for raising awareness. We need to stop asking only: “was there violence?” and ask firstly: “was there control?” 💙

user5727289267888 :

You are so beautiful!!!!

tonnershanley :

This video should have MORE views!! 💯

Dawn Drepaul Lindsay :

You explained this so clearly. I had no idea

Carrie Mitchell :

thank you that's the truth. I was denied a restraining order

user9018144302371 :

I’m I’m so single and loving it 💯💯💯

Vanessa Wollard :

My life since December 2024 in Licking County, Ohio!

miawarrior23 :

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Beryl :

Exactly what happened to me. Every time it happened. And it happened too many times.

shelbyvintage :

Thank you! I hope this post gets a lot of reach!

Syuhada Matthews :

Thank you for speaking up 💜💜💜

hi.imnic :

my life

❌ Robyn-Lea The New Me 🇨🇦 :

Thank you for raising awareness. I went through this.

deana sophia :

repost

The Family Advocate🫶🏻 :

Yes please keep speaking on this 🫶🏻

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alibabe_tm :

I'm so grateful for you and your who personality and demeanor is meant for the work you're doing! I never skip your videos

Miss Monica Labranche Hicks :