@carlhuelin: I just never thought id get to be 46 and not have kids. It’s been one of the biggest struggles I’ve had to face if I’m honest. Ive gone from dismissing relationships because they didn’t want kids To now dismissing them because they do. The idea of becoming a dad in my late 40s. Starting that whole chapter now. Having the energy for young kids. I don’t know. It just doesn’t feel right anymore or even the right thing to do. I’m just a lot more aware of everything now.. People will say adopt, or find someone who has kids already. But I just know that’s not what I want either. And I know it’s different for men, biologically speaking. But there’s definitely a little grief in knowing that I will never be a Dad. All the moments I thought I’d experience Christmas mornings, birthdays etc. The little things. But I’m embracing the path I’m on now. The freedom The ability to take more risks and design a different lifestyle. Not better, not worse just different. I think I’m content being “cool” uncle Carl to 3 beautiful nieces. Has anyone else battled with this?

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samuel_uk15
samuel_uk15 :
As a 46 year old…. I’m fine
2026-07-09 21:26:46
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trms68
Trms :
You’re a man; 46 is not old. Anything can happen to anyone. My dad was 13 years older than my mom. My mom died of cancer at 45, my dad is 96 and still living independently, walking to the coffee shop, and picking up a few groceries at the corner store.
2026-07-09 21:31:22
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mr_v1in
CSM :
I genuinely believe that I was alone.
2026-07-08 04:01:26
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amethyst6642
Amethyst :
It’s a heavy grief when the life you really dreamed of, doesn’t eventuate the way you deeply wished it would. 💜 May you find your way to peace.
2026-07-09 05:04:09
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simonetravers_coach
Simonetravers_coach :
I feel you on this.. it was always part of my plan. And took time to heal the part that desired this.. but created a life so full right now. That I’m living every moment in the beauty that life is. My heart still breaks sometimes.. but I live the life having kids could never give me 🩷✈️
2026-07-09 17:43:08
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saddle_brat69
SaddleBrat :
When you hit 60 you will look back and realize how young you were at 46 and all the things you limited yourself from doing will be regrets because in this moment you thought you were to old. When really you were still young.
2026-05-20 12:58:52
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ninerbuff80
ninerbuff80 :
Still not too late. I became a dad at 40. And though 62 now, I NEVER felt old. My daughter and I have a really tight bond and can tell you that your age doesn't matter..........you compassion does.
2026-07-08 20:05:12
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thelongdogs
LongDog :
my dad is 56 and never had kids, he's loved his life, no regrets
2026-06-06 06:18:40
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user65302011657244
Spencer :
Don’t beat yourself up - I’ve got 3 and it’s horrible
2026-05-26 22:01:26
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catcave0524
catcave0524Tracy :
my dad had me at 47, he lived to be almost 102, I'm so glad he did ♥️🥰
2026-05-21 00:39:50
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nanoc89
Kurī :
43 single with no kids. There's no way I'm bringing children onto an earth that's constantly at war. I'm happy with my decision.
2026-06-21 04:14:48
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uofhcandice
uofhcandice :
40 and childless BUT I’m an elementary teacher. So that’s how I get my kidfix.
2026-06-06 04:08:29
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greenupguy55
greenupguy5 :
enjoy the peace and your bank accounts
2026-06-09 02:30:25
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jos6022
Jos602 :
I’m 43 my husband 42 we are also grieving. We can’t have kids fertility issues. We tried. We’ve thought about adopting or going a donar embryo but just don’t have the money for that. We struggle around mothers and Father’s Day. We have 3 nieces and 1 nephew, we love being uncle and aunt. But it’s hard
2026-06-08 20:34:50
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oogtheoriental
Oog :
My boyfriend is 47 we just had a baby. He loves it - after not wanting kids for his whole life he’s happy we chose to!
2026-06-07 08:16:16
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slainte_islander
slainte_islander :
As I woman I tried and tried and couldn’t carry a baby to full term. I’m 46 and far from at peace with this part of my life.
2026-06-07 22:41:21
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beany8946
BeanBean :
As a 46 year old with a teenage daughter I can assure you it ain't a bed of roses for everyone. enjoy life and travel the world. x
2026-05-19 16:04:45
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yukonnais
Yukonnais 🇨🇦 :
I am gay and also in my late 40s. I went through this grief too. I appreciate you sharing this video. More men should express.
2026-06-07 21:22:18
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el.abdullah8
el abdullah :
you still have time
2026-06-10 05:26:29
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rosa.nera.777
Rosa.Nera.777 :
As a 42 single woman with no kids i like to stay there with u😂
2026-06-08 23:35:09
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heyjaytoday
Jay Today 🍄 :
I’m 48 and just had a kid. There is still time, just stay in shape because it’s tiring.
2026-05-20 00:06:50
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chyo_00
chyo_00 :
38 , dealing with that as a woman 😭
2026-06-08 23:02:47
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dave_9912
Dave :
I'm 38 no kids and actually terrified of this outcome for me.
2026-06-08 21:50:50
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frankypanky47
frankypanky :
What’s stopping you? I became a dad at 56😅. Greatest thing ever
2026-06-09 09:54:26
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tinaw780
WiscoGirl1007 :
Yes and it’s hard at first but when you realize God is in charge, it helps
2026-06-05 12:24:12
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