He Said She Said Podcast
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Tuesday 19 May 2026 15:26:54 GMT
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lovematilda5 :
Doesn’t seem like a joint decision tbh. He’s doing what she wants so struggling to engage with the processes possibly ?
2026-05-19 16:24:11
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Applewahhhh :
They communicate so well I love this vulnerability xx
2026-05-19 16:13:35
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Colleen the FizzyO :
Aww. I swear I could hear the lines and the muddled up emotions bashing their way to the front of your brain Louise when trying to describe what you’re feeling. I found some alleviation of stress, personally, when I stepped into a pact with myself that I would view all things IVF as a ceremonial handover of the reigns to the Drs. It was a plan, that seemed to work for me, to stop indirectly applying expectations and pressures on myself and my husband/ our relationship. The whirring in my head seemed to come down a level or two, and my “bite” at my husband also gradually ebbed away with the tide. Only with time have I been able to glance back at that time and realise that my husband was simply frozen and petrified of putting a foot wrong- and I would have to confess to feeling rather resentful of his quietness throughout the infertility journey. It’s all just so damn hard. And there are no guarantees… which makes the gamble feel all the more nerve wracking. But I hope you’re like myself…. feel like you need to give it everything and know, whatever the outcome, that there’s no regret to follow. Wishing you both a mountain of patience - it’s an absolute whollop of a relationship test. Rooting for yous 🤝🏼 🍀
2026-05-22 17:30:59
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charlottedurham3 :
Ordinarily (as someone who has also been through ivf) I would feel disappointed in Ryan not being a more supportive partner as Louise is the one going through it (physically), but I really feel for him too as we obviously know what he went through after Leo was born both as a partner and new father. He must be so scared and traumatised too. I hope he finds someone to talk his feelings through with so he can give Louise the support she deserves. Love you guys, thank you for sharing your journey and vulnerability x
2026-05-19 17:32:44
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J :
Ryan is so lovely. He feels uneasy because surrogacy is ethically very murky
2026-05-19 17:59:04
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goldie :
Thank you for your vulnerability. I am going through the surrogacy process with my partner as well following many traumatic losses and these conversations feel very familiar. You’re not alone ✨
2026-05-21 17:34:46
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Kay27 :
Love that you two are communicating your feelings and being frank with each other . So incredibly important . Hang in there . You’ve both got this X
2026-05-19 21:47:27
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erikamcdonald73 :
Get a grip Ryan!
2026-05-23 11:57:51
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Jenny | Working with Founders :
I don’t know the ins and outs of the situation, but it doesn’t seem like Ryan wants to do this?
2026-05-22 09:28:17
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GMC :
Ivf is such a rollercoaster of emotions and everyone deals with it in different ways. They’re both doing amazing considering the past issues and everything they’ve been through. They’re holding up to get through it and hopefully they have a beautiful baby at the end of it. It’s difficult for both parties. 🤞🤞🙏🙏. Good luck guys 🥰🥰❤️
2026-05-21 11:34:48
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Laura :
i have been a surrogate. please message if you have any questions
2026-05-22 10:31:26
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Jules :
Very strong of them that speak so honestly & openly on this podcast.
2026-05-20 03:46:49
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Rebekah Scanlan :
The IVF process is pretty lonely. Me and my partner had similar struggles. He would tell me that it’s impossible to truly understand the process as it’s not happening to him which is fair in some ways, but felt like a cop out in others. It’s so hard. Hope you get some good news soon 💖✨
2026-05-19 20:50:33
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Kelly Marie Setters :
Love you two xx🥰
2026-05-19 16:51:00
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Applewahhhh :
This may break them I think
2026-05-19 16:14:43
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🍁🐝Harriet🐝🍁 :
♥️♥️♥️
2026-05-31 19:57:39
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