xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Tuesday 19 May 2026 16:34:25 GMT
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_camotoad :
I hope we can get through this. We are in week one. I moved out to give her space so we can work on each other and she can heel. I’m just hoping she can get past the hurt from years pass and we can move forward and be better and stronger. It’s tough
2026-07-06 12:26:42
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Elena Mincer :
Who moved out of the house? And where did they go?
2026-05-19 21:22:08
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mchrgal :
Do you have any tips regarding rebuilding desire? We are reconciling after a short separation but my husband feels super numb after being burnt out and all the stress and guilt. And he admitted he doesn’t feel desire as much as he’d like to. But I really feel it can grow if and when his nervous system settles… so I’m just giving him time…
2026-05-20 13:48:35
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PeterDaayum :
Beautiful what true love can do. My ex is currently in the relief stage been a little bit over 2 weeks now. I am just working on me and God not to get her back but to for me to change. How / When will she kinda notice that and be able to actually trust my change? Bc we know what we had was real. I just never changed back then.
2026-05-19 16:52:15
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tuh_RAY_suh :
Rebuilding after 2 years of being divorced, 3 years separated (but still a beautiful and healthy co-parenting relationship). We’re almost 3 months in and it feels so good to reconnect/get to know each other, have fun together again, AND also have the hard conversations we weren’t having at the end of our 11 year marriage. We’ve both done a lot of work in the last 3 years and are confident history will not repeat itself. There is total accountability and compassion on both sides, something I wasn’t sure we would ever be able to get to. It’s not easy by any means, there are a lot of old wounds that need to heal still, but this time we’re healing them with each other instead of trying to do it alone.
2026-07-04 12:32:11
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Just Arnold :
God is so good🙏🏽I am in tears for you guys, and I pray over your marriage.
2026-05-19 22:45:54
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i_m_found :
Avoidant and anxious push pull dynamic. Both people fighting nervous systems. Im happy you have are reconciling.
2026-05-22 20:58:29
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AnothrUserName :
I am so hopeful I can have similar success. For now, I'm walking the same path your husband is. I say "is" rather than "was" because his journey (and mine) is a life-long effort to actively work on self-work and the marriage. It's not a temporary repair effort.
2026-05-19 16:48:34
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boydhowie :
currently going through this i truly hope if I give her the space she needs and continue to work with a councillor. We will move forward and grow together. I love my wife and my kids and want them to be happy. Your videos help thank you.
2026-05-19 20:41:41
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Yvonne :
I am crying as i watch this. Can't stop but think about my partner now. I really wish we could make and save it like you guys did. But it's really hard, yeah? It hurts to hear they're so one and cannot see the relationship making it anymore. Seeing them like a whole new person around me breaks my heart to pieces. I hope I will be strong enough to handle these.
2026-05-20 08:57:44
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user1455246580449 :
we are going through this now. I kmow we still love each other dearly. But unfortunately she is burnt out. I understand. I have let my anger destroy everything. I have now admitted myself into a private mental health facility for a two month stay so I can try and figure myself out. I told her I understand her decision. I have offered to help her with whatever she needs. told her to take everything in the house . I don't care about any of it. I have to find myself.
2026-05-21 02:05:02
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Arce.202@ :
Your story is so beautiful! Thanks for sharing and keeping hopes alive for all of your followers!🫶🫶🫶
2026-05-20 02:34:34
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Liz💋 :
What if they take time but just start dating right away? I feel like it’s completely over.
2026-05-19 19:06:23
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Becca🥥 :
I absolutely love your account
2026-05-20 04:03:40
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burrnout8888 :
So encouraging, thanks for given me hope ! 🙏
2026-05-22 02:40:20
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AaronImler :
I love your story. So glad you decided to reconcile. Thank you for giving us hope!
2026-06-17 19:43:16
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BetoPistolas94 :
For me is this to heal mentally and god to heal spiritually
2026-06-12 05:33:50
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VanillaGorilla :
just catching up on your page..which was the avoidant and which was the anxious?
2026-05-21 19:31:32
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Scoot :
Do you know what kind of couching your husband got? I’m interested in learning more about this type of coaching for men.
2026-07-08 19:37:12
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misfitted_toy :
I was the burnt out pursuer. I moved out after a years of waiting for change. He was so angry that he pushed through the divorce, and now he’s been with a rebound for 10 months and hates my guts. How do we get past that?
2026-05-19 19:33:22
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NeroAngelo_ :
I wish this could be me...i feel alot of hurt has happened. ill be getting paper work soon. she wants no part of me 🥀 im currently working on myself with therapy and physical change. i mean what I said. I hope in the end she's still there after my new version 🥺 but I fear whe won't
2026-06-29 22:16:22
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Kash (and sometimes George) :
😁😁😁
2026-05-19 19:02:56
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Lori Schneider421 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-19 17:40:58
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꧁𝒯𝒾𝑔𝑒𝓇𝕃𝕚𝕝𝕪꧂ :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-19 21:27:02
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