@coach.ryan0: Avoidants will call completely normal relationship behavior “pressure.” Literally EVERYTHING normal in a relationship triggers them. Consistency. Communication. Closeness. Accountability. That’s not “too much.” That’s a relationship. #AvoidantAttachment #DismissiveAvoidant #RelationshipTok #EmotionalUnavailability #AttachmentTheory

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stacey :
Does it ever get better, or change?
2026-07-08 20:40:53
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cameo768
Cmpfknr :
So, I asked for a kiss good night . Triggered 💥
2026-06-15 14:07:50
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laura.prescott1
Laura :
It’s basically impossible and you can lose your mind, heart and soul trying to understand it. I learned this in my life - twice with the same person . Let them go and live life. “It’s not you” xxx
2026-05-27 18:46:54
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claribel99
Claribel :
Thank you for the reminder that the best thing I did was leave!
2026-06-17 19:14:09
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lisey7587
Another Fabulous Matriarch ✨ :
I had the same type of background as him but I became an adult and worked on myself
2026-06-23 15:31:26
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jeanjosephine339
Sarahquarius :
mine likes getting hugged, as well as back messages, but he will never reciprocate or come hug me. I'm in a situation where i am unable to leave for mainly financial reasons.
2026-07-25 22:23:47
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nurse071986
🦁Grateful👑 :
This was so comforting to me! Thank you! I don’t have to let them bother me anymore! I appreciate your kindness, sir, in teaching us about Dismissive Avoidant men! God bless you, sir!
2026-08-14 05:54:06
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gbrook810
gbrook810 :
Ok. After the diagnosis. Then what? Recognizing that this me is the first step. What’s the second?
2026-07-01 15:40:57
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capricornin8th
Evolving Abroad :
THIS, meeting friends, family, going out, making plans 😵‍💫🙄
2026-06-19 23:53:34
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silviaquintellasoulcoach
SilviaQuintellaSoulAlchemist :
It is so unhealthy to have a relationship with an avoidant person. it is like a battle that you can never win. Run. 🥰
2026-07-22 18:05:34
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dynamicallydara1
dynamicallydara :
I put food in the refrigerator. Triggered.
2026-06-13 15:53:39
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darthcruzie
darthcruzie :
This is so spot on, and I talk about this in my content too! Self abandonment is such a real thing when you’re fighting for these people that you’ve put so much time into. It’s just hard to lose and you end up devaluing yourself.
2026-05-30 04:28:07
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shandrillee
amandivine :
Holding hands 😒
2026-07-07 17:37:18
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pretzelgirl9072
pretzelgirl9072 :
I’m not gonna list a bunch of issues. I just really regret so much.
2026-06-17 19:45:30
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taebae.cherry
Baileyanna :
then why do they get into relationships at all?
2026-07-14 14:48:50
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alexdaltas
Alex Daltas Voice Actor :
Thank you so much for this. This is just everything packed into one powerful post. Taking some new approaches now, which is basically what you say — can’t change them, not gonna bother trying anymore. I choose myself.
2026-06-21 01:26:43
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katherine6506
Katherine :
The worst part is, we know they’re defective. They just don’t want us to know. You’re defective. I’m defective. I work on it, you don’t? Okkkkk cool.
2026-07-15 01:30:17
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cosmicsiren3
In love with the ocean 🌊 :
Just leave an avoidant. It’s not worth the pain. The longer you stay the harder it gets
2026-07-06 22:55:47
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erin_leighfay
erinfay :
Soooooooo it all makes sense
2026-06-17 21:28:31
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meeeex83
Meeeex :
it truly feels like living with someone who is trying to see how far they can push you before you leave.
2026-07-22 22:31:31
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thesalvagemaiden
Ferdie 🌻 :
Do they ask “Do you still love me?” All the time?
2026-07-01 12:04:35
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al_ro_co
Alroco :
Couldn’t nail down a plan for anything
2026-07-23 01:51:45
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stacyhoffs
Stacy Hoffman 🌻 :
Ughhhhhhh
2026-07-08 15:28:28
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jennmaynard22
JennD22 :
Exactly!! It took close to two years before I could see I was with a dismissive avoidant.
2026-06-30 17:58:58
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annakozak42
Anna Kozak :
my husband
2026-06-19 02:40:33
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