@spicestroof: Growth doesn't look like smooth easy breakthroughs. It looks like defensive first. Then curious. Then the slow hard work of unlearning 22 years of conditioning. We are in individual and couples therapy. And these conversations are still hard. But they are productive. Is your person doing the work? Drop it in the comments. Free assessment in my bio. @troofsauce #PrisonWife #PrisonWives #SecondHandIncarceration #Therapy #accountability