@invinciblevenus5: Men who date because it‘s the only opportunity at talking about their emotions.

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wawallace
wawallace :
the sound of your voice is so satisfying. I can’t explain hahah
2026-05-21 00:11:30
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alphacentauri134
djdkgkenclrnckfk :
Hiii... That would be me 😇 as all of you can already see im hiding behind anonymous profile still 🥲 ... Just want to give a shoot out to Isabel for being one of the most awesome people I met online. And thanks for the kind words and your perspective as always!
2026-05-20 17:50:12
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user0six
🔅julia🔅 :
Every relationship i am in I feel like I am raising a teenage boy😂
2026-06-28 13:50:17
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lisl_skywalker
lisa_ :
This also happened to me in my past relationship. He had best friends from childhood but they only talked about sports and drinking. I was the only one he had emotional talks with and I kinda felt like a therapist more than a girlfriend 🫠
2026-05-21 08:01:52
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wetrashtalk
AC :
As a mom who has a son it’s very important we encourage our boys to express their feelings and validate them and respect them and try to understand them. It starts young.
2026-05-20 20:33:57
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eva_divaa16
eva :
i think the internet is so amazing and i wish people would use it in a positive way more. like the anonymity it creates can be so helpful and create a space for conversations and connections. i wish it could be more focused on that
2026-05-20 20:33:33
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journeytoawesome
Waldtraut :
My Podcast is on 🤌
2026-06-20 05:01:49
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kionamoves
kionamoves :
Ugh this happened to me it was the WORST
2026-06-02 16:19:59
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isabellgers
isabellgers :
This!!!
2026-06-16 16:30:11
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pitbullnovember
P. November :
Thank you 🙏
2026-06-21 15:03:12
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mlday93
Mitch :
This rings true within gay dating too. I grew up with almost exclusively female friends and in my last relationship the emotional labour became my burden to shoulder. When attempting to talk about feelings it was never met with softness or vulnerability, it was always somehow offensive to him or perceived as an attack because he didn’t have the capacity to recognise that expressing a feeling is not a personal attack on his character. I made myself smaller because it became an unsafe space to be emotionally candid. It was a badge of honour for him to be unphased by the “small” things which inevitably came to the surface all at once after I expressed a feeling he felt attacked by.
2026-05-31 06:51:21
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404.___00
💿 :
i broke up with my boyfriend because he was very closed off about his emotions because he has mild autism and had troubles socializing and talking, and always liked being alone. i tried to tolerate it and adjusted my needs and emotions for him but i reached my limit and ended the relationship, i still love him but i know i deserve better, but i can’t stop thinking that we could’ve “work through” or “fix” things. i already tried fixing it many times but it always ended the same, how can i move on or accept this🥹
2026-05-20 14:21:51
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zimna_czapka
zimna_czapka :
This is true.
2026-05-20 15:31:23
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alexmmedina6
Alex | Travel & Yachting :
What if they repressed any deep feelings all together?
2026-06-09 09:00:18
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nialll966
nialll966 :
is a strong held belief a fact?
2026-05-20 21:11:16
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xordinary_2
Xordinary :
Facts
2026-06-29 21:48:25
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cjkj_01
cjk_01 :
💯💯💯
2026-05-20 14:16:46
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yeast_affection
yeast_affection :
💯💯💯
2026-05-26 10:05:05
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inelsmind
Els :
😁😁😁
2026-06-21 18:55:36
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gooby234
gooby_22 :
Also men thinking they are falling in love with the first female friend they have ever had who talks to them about their feelings despite the friend not actually showing any interest lol
2026-05-20 18:27:07
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eugenia242424
Eugenia :
It’s also a responsibilities that patriarchy assigns to our gender. It’s not only easier for them to do it with us, it’s the “correct” place to do it. I’m sure this type of men would have problems defying other gender roles as well
2026-05-22 07:39:29
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hanachandogoru
hanachandogoru :
It’s also pretty common for some men who are single to just transfer the therapist role onto any of their female friends in between relationships. I don’t know exactly how to describe the difference but I often feel that in friendships with women we’re talking about our feelings from similar levels of emotional maturity and with male friendships I sometimes feel like they’re hoping I’ll guide them to, what they consider, a profound emotional realisation but it’s just something most women had figured out by the time they’re 13 because we’re so used to discussing our thoughts and feelings and interrogating them on our own.
2026-06-09 17:08:35
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