I shifted from focusing on men in any capacity. Instead of “decentering men” I “center sovereignty” and just focus on living my life in ways that increase my joy, ease, and comfort. Doing that naturally decenters men because the focus moving forward is and will always be me.
2026-05-20 17:47:59
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Jess Mealia :
This is insanely well put
2026-05-20 18:48:46
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mammy :
The person who gets hurt will always be you when you don’t ask what I’m getting out of this situation!!!!!!
2026-05-22 19:35:29
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Rembulan Nauli :
this is crazy gooooood
2026-05-20 23:00:20
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earth2amelie :
So well put. I find myself moving between hating them, focusing on me, and indifference. And knowing that it’s a balance makes e feel better.
2026-05-25 13:40:55
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Tahila__s :
@jeni
2026-05-22 23:06:11
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