@christie.heals: Stay away from unsafe communicators! ❌ They don’t care how you feel. ❌ They don’t want to change. ❌ It’s not your job to save or fix them. #r#relationshipadvicet#toxicfamilyn#narcissistb#boomerm#millenial

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laurac12341
laurac12341 :
Mom….is that you?
2026-05-21 02:31:53
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hannahpetroskie
🪩 Hannah Petroskie 🪩 :
Hey so I’m triggered now 🥴
2026-05-20 19:13:04
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amandanicolebutle
mandy :
I wish the person I'm thinking of would see this
2026-05-22 02:58:18
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mattcsiszar2
Matt Csiszar :
This and I appreciate the green flags and red flags sweaters.
2026-05-23 00:39:15
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lex46745
Lex :
How I communicate vs my husband
2026-05-22 16:19:20
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ge.orginaaa__
ge.orginaaa__ :
Damn I have really become a safe person!
2026-05-22 22:51:19
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moonmedicine
Moon medicine :
Yep! I agree with it all..but sometimes if you approach me yelling, I will tell you not to speak to me in that tone. The I'm happy to talk and listen calmly. I also have boundaries and respect myself
2026-05-20 19:11:07
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georgia_b92
G e o r g i a ♡︎ :
Damn. I was the unsafe person for a looooong time
2026-05-22 14:30:39
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joscar5717
Joscar57 :
Awesome content
2026-05-20 23:06:09
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blightingjewel
💎 :
im so happy im a safe person :>
2026-05-22 17:54:52
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softenintoyou
Marissa Rose :
That was like ping pong for my nervous system 😅
2026-05-22 23:04:56
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fsm1999
Fsm :
I think we all been both people at some points
2026-05-23 02:40:45
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ronja_emmi
Ronja :
A safe person doesn’t always mean you’re always wrong and need to say that, you can try to understand but you’re not always wrong
2026-05-22 08:40:27
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chocapikaaa09
Ey.🍒🫦 :
My mom…
2026-05-22 05:05:57
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dees_wicked_stitches
Dee’s Wicked Stitches❤️‍🔥 :
I used to be the unsafe person then about 5 years ago I started shadow work and reprogramming my brain and now I’m the safe person. You can change it just takes work!! ❤️‍🩹
2026-05-21 18:19:05
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astoldbyke
Autism Mommy of Two 🧩💜👁️ :
the red shirt sound like my mother like verbatim....
2026-06-12 15:26:51
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silkabelli
silkabelli :
I had both in my life as a child and it was soooooo confusing because the person on the right was my mom but I started to love the person on the left more…🥺
2026-05-22 07:41:52
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sweetmousie
SweetMousie :
Can you show this to me when I was 19 years old? Would have helped. Please share this with people.
2026-05-24 01:15:10
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dinadantuono
Dina D'Antuono :
I truly strive to be the safe person. Its hard, but necessary for healthy relationships. Having this done to me for years really opened my eyes to this damaging dance
2026-05-23 15:21:39
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acbroker1
ACBroker :
This was helpful. I thought I was crazy. I literally said and felt everything blue sweater said. Whew!
2026-05-21 14:07:43
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socon47
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I wanna be saffeeee
2026-05-22 04:32:49
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jessicaannbo
user7309389391064 :
My husband
2026-05-20 19:10:41
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cessiecorpse
cessie 🪽 :
but what if the other person is in the wrong
2026-05-22 15:01:46
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