Rachel | Relationship Coach ✨
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Wednesday 20 May 2026 20:36:31 GMT
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harrio2026 :
Two people walking on eggshells?
2026-05-20 21:00:14
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cozyarcane :
Jup, its the very first i felt understood and safe lol
2026-05-20 20:47:14
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nephophileee.___ :
We both were FA it was just so weird I ended it😭😭
2026-06-05 12:53:57
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kr04895246 :
I feel this SO much with my FA- sometimes. But there’s also so much push/pull and chaos. He pushes me into the friend zone all the time. He doesn’t want to let me go but the relationship is too much sometimes i guess
2026-05-21 10:42:15
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bri love :
if they are healed then it can work out and depends on how they are in conflict and stress if they are willing to try then its possible.
2026-05-21 03:39:29
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Yearim Heretik :
18 years. yes, we were both walking on eggshells, we were both insecure and scared of losing each other. the only reason it ended it's because he discarded. it could have been me though.
2026-05-30 05:37:47
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Ocnan :
I wonder if this was what I was dealing with. I am heading towards earned security and I think they’re fearful.
2026-05-21 13:18:31
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Soleil! :
Yes!! I feel this! I can rarely ever sleep around anyone and literally fall asleep as soon as I get into his bed. Also a push pull dynamic, but we always come back.
2026-05-22 01:06:40
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TheDirtyMustache :
Psychology says this type relationship doesn’t last.
2026-05-21 19:30:43
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user4148334159184 :
Wow, you nailed that.
2026-05-24 01:55:00
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🦋 Tanya_Marie_Rising ✨ :
Thank you for this , 👏❤️
2026-05-21 16:28:17
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Shane Michael :
100 my last relationship
2026-05-21 01:45:15
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✓{MARLON}✓ :
this is exactly what i needed to hear today
2026-05-21 19:30:08
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Bri Castilleja :
Sigh
2026-05-21 02:13:51
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dayana :
awesome
2026-05-21 19:33:11
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stopcopyingmyusername__ :
Noooo
2026-05-22 11:05:27
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MG :
Read Clear the Noise by Leona Vale if you're struggling with anxiety/racing thoughts. literally changed my life.
2026-05-21 19:31:13
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James 🌊🏔️ 🥾 | UP :
But the real question, what does it do to the children? Enmeshed parent child relationships can happen. The parents avoid real issues with their children. Lack of real emotional attunement due to emotional dysregulation. A push pull with the children too. Externalization of emotional regulation taught to the children can cause CPTSD or BPD to the kids.
2026-05-21 01:19:39
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Adán :
Omg omg. Yes. Safeeee. Then bam. Gone. Messed me up so bad.
2026-05-20 22:08:40
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Gladys ✨ 🌙 :
lol I thought me and my fearful Avoident friend are very much alike in some ways that I thought I was FA but I’m not sure. I think I just have autism. I’m constantly masking, I need a lot of space to recharge otherwise I get overwhelmed, constantly studying people’s behaviors to understand social dynamics. I even told this to my friend(I’m pretty blunt) My mom was definitely a fearful Avoidant and my dad dismissive. And yes I ended up here because I’m hyper fixated on attachments at the moment. She’s the one that told me she was fearful so I was interested in learning about it. Your videos are very helpful
2026-05-21 09:19:03
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sad_vibes1657 :
nope. he destroyed me
2026-05-20 21:50:18
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desperateBeauty :
essentially this is just the general human delusion that 'if they were only just like me, there would be no problem'. we are the problem. so being faced with someone 'just like us' ...
2026-05-21 12:14:36
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Hayden :
Yes it was beautiful, until we destroyed each other. I’ll forever love him. 💜
2026-05-22 02:41:26
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