This is so impactful you have no idea. I knew I’d never fall victim to domestic labor, but seeing how I could fall victim to the emotional labor aspect is an eye opener. Thank you for this!
2026-05-27 13:02:04
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🦇jaceebreann🦇 :
That’s why I’m 34 and still single because my standards are so incredibly high
2026-05-20 23:14:25
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carovskyj :
Your series is one of my favorite content on tik tok, I look forward to it every time I use this app. I identify with you so much! Thank you for sharing ❤️
2026-06-03 12:51:27
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Dr. Shareece :
This series is incredibly powerful. I’m sharing it with everyone I think could benefit from all the information you’re sharing with us. Thank you 💗
2026-05-21 11:17:52
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melilee75 :
Out of curiosity, what is his sun and moon?
2026-05-21 01:15:45
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Alexis :
I stopped doing my husbands laundry then the laundry basket would be full of his clothes and me and the kids would put our clothes on top and it would constantly be overflowing. I bought a second basket to try to mitigate this, but it wasn’t big enough. I ended up going back to doing it because I hated seeing all this laundry
2026-05-31 13:59:07
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kavie :
Oof. Sorry I’m all over your comments right now but he waits till the last minute to wake up and I have to take him to work currently because he lost his license till July. Why is my ass bringing him lunch ALSO on his lunch break when he could have packed the night before?! He said, I just really wanna see you and my son during my lunch. Funny because he wants to just sit on his phone when he gets off work. So, thank you. No longer doing lunches with him. 30 minute lunch, 15 minutes eating. 15 minutes engaged? Not worth it
2026-05-28 02:28:49
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doodlecafe247 :
Can I ask you why you allowed your boundaries to be eroded? For example, for me it was intense jealousy that sparked my centering of my husband. Why did it happen for you?
2026-05-29 07:33:59
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Erin Ward McCarty :
Omg…Virgo sun, Scorpio rising and Cancer moon right here 😫
2026-05-22 02:13:01
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Sarsarsar :
Hope it is not insensitive but I really admire your style and love how you dress and use compliments! I noticed that it has evolved from your first videos, do you think this has also been coming with the decentering process?
2026-05-22 11:56:23
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rocketscientista :
Oh wow, this series just continues to hit home. Valedictorian, multilingual PhD who told my thoughtful, capable husband on the first date that I would never change my name, and if I got a chance to go to space, I would go without asking. And just this year really starting to embark on decentering him. Not because he asked to be centered, but because I couldn’t see beyond my programming in some arenas. Thank you for sharing all you do!
2026-05-21 20:47:54
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primrosepierrot :
im in my first ever relationship, nearing 1.5 years together and while i was kind of aware of this and am in therapy, your videos have really made me aware not to fall into this dynamic so thank you so much.
2026-05-23 18:10:23
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horsealex12 :
Same here, I feel less crazy, knowing that someone else has had the same experience.
2026-05-21 00:14:42
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n4nettko :
These videos are truly important for women that don't even realise they may be in similar situations. Thank you for sharing all this wisdom.
2026-05-24 16:26:22
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Kay Cee :
He has friends! That is a good sign.
2026-05-21 01:54:14
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Deborah Grace_AU :
When I learned I was nobody's court jester (and no one else was mine), my entire world changed.
2026-05-27 02:06:36
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shpresalika416 :
just 1 thing i will never do ,even if i will get married someday i will never share my bank account with him
2026-05-23 09:11:55
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Keyaira :
It's like you're speaking the words out of my mouth. We have SO many similarities 🤯
2026-05-22 15:53:04
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megsincanada :
So relatable ❤️
2026-05-21 00:46:19
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latiff12345 :
she is that girl 👏❤️
2026-05-24 08:52:15
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michellebdiaz :
this is so me
2026-05-20 23:12:35
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Shar Shar :
Can you talk specifically about what your mindset was like when you were in the depths of centering your husband? I know your life basically revolved around him at that point but like how were you feeling? What were your moods generally like? Were you in your head a lot?
2026-05-21 20:07:01
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Nelysworld :
Virgo sun Scorpio moon and experiencing everything you are saying here so crazy and we are very similar
2026-05-21 17:38:23
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TyeRho86 :
I knew I resonated with you on another level. Virgo Sun, Scorpio moon & rising here.
2026-05-21 01:48:33
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