@mimisquietfire: oh man oh man

Wolfy :

I just did this. he doesnt understand and I cant make him. we just arent right for each other

Gigi 🫶 :

WOWWW WORD FOR WORD. just ended a 4 year relationship and at the end I still said I love you because I didn’t want to resent or hate him at the end

bella :

Broke up today! Someone please please please say it gets better I just lost my best friend

keedo :

Word for word. 7 years. I still think about him everyday wondering if I made the wrong choice. He moved on 🤷🏻‍♀️

Berb :

It’s not cruel to him or to you. A breakup is not a character assassination of either person—it is an acknowledgment that two people are not a good long term match. There’s no need to assign blame to yourself that.

userr :

holy timing

tymber :

i just went thru this myself; it’s okay to feel shitty. everyone gonna say you shouldn’t, which is true, but it’s hard not to feel that way. give it a couple weeks and you’ll realize it was the nicest thing you could do

ella :

accurate asf

. :

holy 😭😭 bar by bar

Ariel :

is there a way to fix this? me being the stupid man? and not distance or breakup? somebody knows?

just_connor0 :

I feel this to my core. We were in different levels of maturity. I did everything and felt like I got nothing in return. I love him, but I can sacrifice my life to wait around forever to see if he maybe changes. I feel like a monster doing it, but maybe in time it will be less

EC :

proud of you for this tough decision. action over inaction

love & light :

i’m so glad you figured out that you’re not compatible!! that’s a really hard thing to see and admit. i also remember reading your words about your anxious attachment and im so glad that it didn’t prevent you from doing what’s right for both of you!!

itsjustzach :

honestly being the person who was dumped a few months ago for this reason. It feels like the most respectful and responsible thing to do now.

BayGinLow :

Girl I literally just did this yesterday HOW DOES FYP KNOW

Draokin :

I wish she told it to me this way instead of saying I'm horrible before then changing the wording

Barf :

No baby. You are brave!

ab609bos :

I was in the same situation. I understand you completely. NEVER blame yourself for choosing you

c :

i've been watching your notes/updates for a long time now, usually your posts pop up when im really low. which is a lot. but its a strange sort of comfort to keep up with one persons story i guess, i'm a pretty isolated guy, i don't respond well with other people. its so ingrained into my soul that i don't think i can stop, i've always wanted to write like you, i guess i am now. but as more of a statement/response, i usually never comment but your post sits with me a little extra today. alright well, time to scroll.

Ameryn :

Sometimes yes. But if he’s genuinely your person. Go back to him and at least try to talk it through and figure out if you’re both willing to compromise

mols🌟 :

I deserved someone who would appreciate me

daddy toucan :

while painful if this is the mentality you hold it is the best for both sides. it's possible for both sides to deserve better.

Celi💗 :