Parents are scared. They aren't dealing with those emotions appropriately. It's not ok to try and control others to make yourself feel better. But if you realize it is from a place of misplaced love and not malice, it'll be easier to manage. It was really important to the parents, especially Mom who's probably seen some stuff, that the daughter have a marketable skill to fall back on. And now the daughter is very dependent on her young husband. The only way through it is setting clear boundaries, stating them lovingly, and proving them wrong over time by loving their daughter well and ensuring she is taken care of.
2026-05-21 15:48:34
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ThriftFinder :
My parents told me if I didn’t graduate, I’d have to pay back every penny. I don’t blame the parents, education is everything!
2026-05-22 23:52:08
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Eden Eleogram :
21! Geeze
2026-05-21 15:36:43
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KikidlG :
Of course he has to return it
2026-05-22 15:43:18
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SJW :
Please, please stop over talking each other.
2026-05-26 11:17:04
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Hanky :
As a woman that has a BS in chemical engineering I hated it after my junior year. I sucked or up and graduated. Worked as an engineer for 12 years and hated it. Changed careers to nursing.
2026-05-23 02:43:47
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GoldenFleece :
LOL, that’s funny. Nothing against people who ask the parents for permission, but I’ve always wondered: if you’re going to marry the person anyway, why ask for permission in the first place if there’s a chance they could say no? 😅
2026-06-07 09:29:42
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Celeste :
The Secret Book of Fortune by Isak Voren is exactly what i needed
2026-05-21 19:08:21
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Robert ✝️ :
Love supporting small creators
2026-05-21 15:00:59
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favergaliano :
The Secret Book of Fortune by Isak Voren scared me how accurate it was
2026-05-21 19:05:41
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eduardo :
glad to see New creators 😅
2026-05-21 15:09:14
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Emilylikesbikes :
Sinus tachycardia? That’s what happens when you work out
2026-05-21 15:29:16
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Collin Clardy :
Thought he said, “blind dance teacher” which is fine, but it’s interesting to think about.
2026-05-21 15:28:59
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Meditating_Monkey :
She should deal with her parents, he should deal with his. Never should that ever be confused.
2026-06-15 02:19:31
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BlackSheep :
If her college was paid for by a fund from her grandfather, then her parents did not pay for it.
2026-05-26 23:18:43
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The Life of Shi :
Nope her family is her problem your family is yours! That’s what the premarital therapist told us and it has worked wonderfully for us.
2026-05-22 17:03:47
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Meekachu :
The parents care more about her education than her health? Double pneumonia is no joke.
2026-06-02 08:34:23
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rayahorner :
Offs. Parents get a grip
2026-05-23 14:54:43
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finnbot_1 :
I don’t think many parents would be happy about daughter dropping out of college and marrying at 21 … but asking back the money is nothing but punishment.
2026-05-28 08:22:34
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WordGirl 🇨🇦 :
Why is the husband calling in and not the wife/ daughter. He needs to stay out of it. It’s her issue to resolve with her parents.
2026-06-14 19:57:26
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Rays :
The money was left to her by her grandparents. It’s not her parents money. And they’re more concerned about her having a degree that she hates rather than her being happy.
2026-07-06 14:19:50
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myhouseisdirtyy2 :
😳😳😳
2026-05-21 18:33:10
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ehartmeister :
😁😁😁
2026-05-21 17:30:04
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Lucy Lou :
😁😁😁
2026-05-21 19:04:30
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