Chris Hatfield - Attachment ๐ง
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Thursday 21 May 2026 20:04:26 GMT
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juan_zx :
if you've got a racing mind or anxiety or adhd and feel stuck, please read Clear The Noise by Leona Vale. it did more for me than months of trying everything else โค๏ธ
2026-05-23 00:03:22
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stoneBreaker :
You telling this really helps. I have a really bad anxious attachment issues when I get close to someone. She texts me and checks up on me, but when I text it does take awhileโฆ but she responds and wants to call when she can. I hope this is her still caring and appreciate this video. Thank you
2026-05-26 00:28:40
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Miah :
for the second one what if I just genuinely like sending them messages even if they don't respond? ๐
2026-05-29 08:41:58
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Anne ๐ด๓ ง๓ ข๓ ณ๓ ฃ๓ ด๓ ฟ ๐๐ถ :
guilty and it's driving me mad
2026-06-01 20:33:48
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John๐ฆฉ๐๐ฆ๐ฅฆ :
this is insane I doing the #2 right now with someone and cant seem to stop guess i got to really ask myself these questions....insane
2026-05-27 00:16:46
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Haile | Anxious to Secure :
Spot on. Anxious attachment convinces us that blowing up the bridge is a way to control the fall, when really we're just creating the exact abandonment we're terrified of. Pausing for those 10 minutes to ask Will this serve or sabotage? is such a game-changer for breaking the cycle.
2026-05-26 04:19:18
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Sevi Nikus :
Remember too, active passivity is still self-sabotage too. Maintaining a connection is not leaning into a relationship.
2026-05-21 21:15:39
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Ebonee Kouture Fashions :
Or people could be jerks. That also can be true.
2026-05-23 01:46:26
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BrickLifts :
Just in a couple of days of watching you probably saved my relationship I realized what I was doing and am doing better now and gave an apology to my gf thanks so much for your amazing content๐ซถ๐ป
2026-05-24 15:47:50
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carolinapatiobuildersnc :
I have a severe case of this right now and Iโm trying to not self sabotage
2026-06-01 00:36:53
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t_takizz :
I donโt need to put all my emotions on her she alr has so much to deal with
2026-05-28 03:54:37
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Dklassyone :
I had mine figured out, but my girl is moving states in 2 days so it all came rushing back
2026-06-01 20:30:44
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LS4397SD :
Iโve been working on not doing the silent treatment. Iโll go quiet for a little bit to collect my thoughts but then ask him if we can talk.
2026-05-22 01:37:53
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Joel ball :
I wouldnโt never leave someone when it gets hard
2026-05-24 20:09:24
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๐๐KingPsychoticasshole๐๐ :
Facts
2026-05-30 23:54:48
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Scout ๐ฅ :
this is me......
2026-05-31 04:09:47
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๐ฟ๐๐ฅ๐๐๐ :
awesome
2026-05-23 00:06:23
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SpeedySpriggs :
God I wish I knew these months ago. Always talked with my partner about it but never had the tools to label, question and step back and self regulate.
2026-05-22 00:33:57
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Baby Cakes :
if you shouldn't fall back (silent treatment) or if you reach out (bombard), what are you supposed to do?
2026-05-22 02:46:45
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Ebonee Kouture Fashions :
@Chris Josh do a video on whether itโs your intuition or your anxiety? Because often they tell anxious attachers to self regulate. But people do cheat in this world.
2026-05-23 01:49:01
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Misslace_10 :
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2026-05-22 16:27:00
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