for the second one what if I just genuinely like sending them messages even if they don't respond? 😆
2026-05-29 08:41:58
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Sevi Nikus :
Remember too, active passivity is still self-sabotage too. Maintaining a connection is not leaning into a relationship.
2026-05-21 21:15:39
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John🦩🐚🥦💎 :
this is insane I doing the #2 right now with someone and cant seem to stop guess i got to really ask myself these questions....insane
2026-05-27 00:16:46
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Justin :
I’m 24 learning this stuff, and man, it’s a lot, but it needs to change.
2026-06-09 20:06:15
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Carolina Patio Builders NC :
I have a severe case of this right now and I’m trying to not self sabotage
2026-06-01 00:36:53
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t_takizz :
I don’t need to put all my emotions on her she alr has so much to deal with
2026-05-28 03:54:37
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Dklassyone :
I had mine figured out, but my girl is moving states in 2 days so it all came rushing back
2026-06-01 20:30:44
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Daniel Sheridan :
I've gotta so much better about all of this. It's not easy to fix. I'm better but I'm not where I want to be yet.
2026-06-12 01:00:57
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jjflaherty1_16 :
I do this so much wish I could fix it I’m so glad she puts up with me
2026-07-13 00:03:31
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stoneBreaker :
You telling this really helps. I have a really bad anxious attachment issues when I get close to someone. She texts me and checks up on me, but when I text it does take awhile… but she responds and wants to call when she can. I hope this is her still caring and appreciate this video. Thank you
2026-05-26 00:28:40
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Haile | Attachment Coach :
Spot on. Anxious attachment convinces us that blowing up the bridge is a way to control the fall, when really we're just creating the exact abandonment we're terrified of. Pausing for those 10 minutes to ask Will this serve or sabotage? is such a game-changer for breaking the cycle.
2026-05-26 04:19:18
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kelvin :
Its me 100% i need help
2026-07-15 23:46:58
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BrickLifts :
Just in a couple of days of watching you probably saved my relationship I realized what I was doing and am doing better now and gave an apology to my gf thanks so much for your amazing content🫶🏻
2026-05-24 15:47:50
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Jaxon (Imogen’s edition) :
@Immyyy I never silent treatment you nor want to break up but I do self sabotage
2026-06-22 02:01:01
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LS4397SD :
I’ve been working on not doing the silent treatment. I’ll go quiet for a little bit to collect my thoughts but then ask him if we can talk.
2026-05-22 01:37:53
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Jessica :
I’ve done this all day!! And I have an anxious attachment workbook. I know I need to work harder. Needed this video today. ♥️
2026-06-17 21:41:17
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AFK 💜💙💜💙 :
😳😳😳 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
2026-07-06 01:36:36
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😈👑KingPsychoticasshole😈👑 :
Facts
2026-05-30 23:54:48
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Scout 🥋 :
this is me......
2026-05-31 04:09:47
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Majk :
if i think about my messages even more than i do now i will end up sending 3 messages a day
2026-06-08 13:55:43
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lindseywooten5 :
I need help lol
2026-06-14 21:38:45
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Jordan O'guin :
so me
2026-06-11 05:36:20
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Ritcheritch6433 :
#facts
2026-07-14 14:02:17
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Una Boona :
guilty
2026-06-22 21:39:38
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