This is EXACTLY why I am in a relationship right now. When I showed interest in return, he showed MORE interest. and the cycle kept going.
2026-05-21 21:00:55
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faustishot.xo :
I had a really good date with a guy, we talked about making plans for the next week but then he went on a camping trip and didn’t respond after. I decided to let myself be open and send another text to let him know I was still interested. I thought he was ghosting and it didn’t feel great to be so open as an ice queen but then he just texted me back and apologized - he said he just got super overwhelmed at work and really wanted to see me again but almost lost my number until I texted him again. we have another date planned next week.
2026-05-22 03:32:07
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Aaaa :
Yes! I have taken emotional risks and it has paid off. I’ve been surprised every time with his responses and it’s showing me I don’t need to shy away from expressing how I feel in a secure way, and it creates openings
2026-05-23 09:47:26
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persephone :
I did but never heard back from him and that was a month ago. its fine I have learned to just live my life and I have other stuff going on in my life. Yes it's disappointing but that's life 🤷🏻♀️
2026-05-22 01:27:21
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totallynotsav :
I took an emotional risk today and then another and then another and he became so much more affectionate with me than he’s been the last several weeks. Why?? Bc im not being a block of ice lol
2026-05-22 21:49:39
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Mathewgraygubblerswifeforever :
I have a question he said that the only thing he needs from me is congruent communication and that this would be everything for him between us.Im a bit confused because I thought I was communicating clearing and that I was being open.
2026-05-24 09:00:11
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God’s Favorite Atheist :
I want to take more emotional risks because I know I’m strong enough
2026-05-21 23:09:51
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sokari🌟 :
Hi, I’ve been watching your videos. I was talking to this guy who I really like but he only want something casual. I know I want a relationship, so I asked him to say expand on what he means by casual and told him casual for me means hookups and that is personally not for me. He has not responded back to that message. Ik that it wouldn’t work but I’m still a bit disappointed
2026-05-22 10:13:38
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kassidy fay :
I went on a date with a guy Tuesday & he text me right after asking if I made it home safe and nice to meet me. I also responded “i did :) thank you. Nice meeting you as well” and I haven’t heard back it’s now Saturday. I feel like he has a clear avenue to text back but hasn’t said anything or set up another date
2026-05-23 17:31:31
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justafollower38🇨🇦 :
I keep acknowledging him and he can barely look at me for me to show interest in order for something to happen. I don’t know what more I can even do anymore. So maybe I should just give up.
2026-05-22 01:02:45
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bugs_952 :
Hey sydney! How do u deal with resentment in a long term relationship?
2026-05-22 14:52:14
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Stefania German :
While i fully agree, an off topic, every time I see your video, you have a new gorgeous set of nails! Stunning
2026-05-22 11:41:09
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Denise♥️🐻 :
I’m really liking your content and I feel like I’ve had so many of the same thoughts as you, i have a disorganized attachment style. Do you think that this all is still possible. Obviously with work on my part through my anxious parts (I’m new here lol)
2026-05-21 22:37:10
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Ajtak :
I created an opening, he was warm but then misattributed a detail that did not belong to me. I called it out calmly and he’s been silent since
2026-05-22 09:14:44
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Paulina Vedic Astrologer :
How to go about at a single’s event as an avoidant? 🫠
2026-05-22 09:18:13
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✧𝓡𝓲𝓽𝓪 ✧ :
should I text him first even if he didn't seen my message yesterday?
2026-05-23 14:04:10
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Ana :
Can you do a video on ghosting
2026-05-22 17:24:12
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Rick Dangus 🏴☠️ :
good call
2026-05-21 22:13:34
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Tik Toker :
Queen
2026-05-26 06:10:54
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conflictedbaby :
I gave them openings. We set dates. I asked his opinions n perspectives of my concerns. I even said i was ready to proceed n what does he thinks. All different guys kind u. N they kinda ghosted or left. When u give them openings n they do not take it, it’s time to leave right
2026-05-21 23:29:23
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AYEYOCICI 💓🇲🇽 :
@Sydney Finn please help me! I’m going to the fair with my crush in a group but I’m soooo nervous. Any tips. I want to give an opening but not tooo big or small.
2026-05-22 16:54:28
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Corrli79 :
❤️
2026-05-21 22:44:54
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Arbiter :
Women that say they don’t want pursue or chase don’t actually want a relationship they want validation that’s it a one sided thing where they don’t equally put in effort… if they wanted a relationship they would try and put effort in instead they want to be a victim and say where are all the good men…
2026-05-21 23:33:18
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