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chase :
maybe instead of "I can't do the dishes" ask yourself, "what could bring me closer to doing the dishes?" (doing it seated, gloves, headphones, a timer, etc). you'd be amazed how you can accommodate yourself if you remove shame from the equation
2026-05-26 22:55:54
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humandisaster :
I've started to realize part of the reason I'm a homebody is because I simply do not want to drive anywhere 😅
2026-05-22 02:34:57
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💕 :
Cant find a job rn bc of this exact reason 💔constantly questioning wether its worth suffering, even if temporarily, to gain experience/skills
2026-05-22 16:44:53
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qhenrick19 :
I didn't get my full driver's license until my early twenties. I also signed up for driving school because it was much easier to drive with a stranger than someone I knew until I was confident enough.
2026-05-21 22:22:39
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lexie.loves.tv :
My issue was that I did try to challenge myself but only things I thought I "should" do or that I was told to do. Not what that I wanted. For example to attend social gatherings where nobody liked me. Instead of spending my energy figuring out what I want & working towards that. It took until 3 years after being diagnosed to even consider what I like or feel.
2026-05-22 16:26:52
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omgsumone :
I think it's fair to give yourself some time to decide what you can and cannot do. I learned I was autistic when I was in burnout, so I immediately cut all unnecessary activities and have been slowly adding new activities when and if I can. there should be no push to do more... though thats difficult in this economy.
2026-05-23 01:39:28
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tommy e :
i appreciate this idea! i think the music was a tad too loud though!
2026-05-24 20:21:05
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Shadow :
I have the complete opposite. I'm overloading myself and uncomfortable with accomodating myself bc it makes me feel weak and I constantly push my limits. I don't know how many years I've been in burn out now. I'm having skill regression as well. Please use your accomodations and please don't push yourself too hard
2026-07-19 12:41:46
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Christian Villalpando :
off topic love your green day banner in the back :D
2026-05-30 06:33:00
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Kaboose: Your NeuroAwesome App :
It's a tough balancing act!
2026-05-23 01:59:12
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sidlovestowrite :
i turn 26 soon and i am still half convinced im too autistic to drive 💔 it’s been my new year’s resolution since i was 16 and i still can’t do it without nearly shutting down but i am getting closer!
2026-06-03 18:57:20
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caroline 🇵🇸🐝 :
im struggling with this so bad right now. it’s really hard to differentiate between something making me uncomfortable or me actually needing an accommodation. because like some things are TOOOO much but like also am i limiting myself? am i pushing responsibility onto other people that should be my own? Like idk it is weird to navigate
2026-06-10 21:23:59
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Sleep me :
Background music is too loud. Interesting topic though
2026-05-29 01:16:05
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jessica :
how do you accommodate yourself in terms of driving? I live in Houston, moving to Dallas soon, and the drivers in both places are HORRIBLE.. no one follows the rules 😭 I'm terrified and don't know how I could possibly get used to it
2026-06-04 05:03:39
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jas :
Yeah cuz it still can’t be an “excuse” but it still is to my head. I can’t do anything without 2nd guessing what I’m being lazy at or is a part of me being autistic
2026-06-18 23:03:17
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Sawa :
i learned i was autistic at 16 (i kinda had a feeling the whole time) and i havent recovered since, im very lost since im not at all used to special help but I very much need it but I dont know what I need
2026-05-23 01:13:16
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𐊴𐤠Ɽ𐤠 :
Really really sorry here for going so off topic but I love the green day poster, it’s fire 😓
2026-05-21 21:26:53
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billie ♡ :
I struggle a lot with this. I know things need to get done, but it's difficult for me to do them - especially with unmedicated severe ADHD and chronic illnesses. I wish I had someone to help me, but that's not an option so I have to just get better at caring for myself :/
2026-06-11 02:23:03
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Salad :
I can’t drive not bcuz I don’t want to but bcuz I literally cannot focus to the point I almost got us in a vv bad wreck, my spouse is scared for me and refuses to let me now 😅
2026-06-19 21:32:50
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Bluemage or plaguejester :
considering I'm in year two with this knowledge that is good to know
2026-05-22 12:15:30
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hissesgetkissesrescue :
I’m sensory seeking so blasted music pairs well with everything I hate doing 😁
2026-10-10 16:50:55
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BorrowMyExecutiveFunctioning :
I was just discussing this with my mom. It is a fine line!
2026-06-09 23:59:12
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Dabachinno :
read to filth😀
2026-06-09 15:43:16
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˗ˏˋ ꒰ 𝖪ꪱᜒ𝗍𝗍ɣ🐾 ꒱ ˎˊ˗ :
I really wanna go get checked if I am neurodivergent but I honestly don’t know how I’m 15 and I don’t know where to start💔
2026-05-23 11:20:04
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