ScottAustinMartin
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Thursday 21 May 2026 21:48:50 GMT
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⚖️ 🐦 ♥️ :
uh oohhh
2026-07-14 20:01:45
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G world :
I fell in love with him because he seemed nice and gentle, but now I realize it was emotional hollowness and I had already fell for him….💔😭
2026-06-10 15:53:34
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🫧🧴 :
so good...defensiveness or deflection feels like emotional abuse to me and doesn't feel safe at all
2026-05-21 22:31:24
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drinkathomemom :
my husband doesn't realize how little he actually smiles around our family. and how little he actually responds when I speak about things that are important to me. most of the time, I don't know if he even hears what I say
2026-06-11 13:46:57
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John O'Leary :
Thanks for the info. Where do you go from there once you’ve registered it’s stability?
2026-07-11 08:46:57
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dead_girl_club :
On his page not mine
2026-06-24 22:39:07
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Irini Goldfarb :
I’ve been trying to put this into words for years. WOW.
2026-05-26 03:08:42
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cookeatuh :
Is this on his page tho
2026-06-10 17:27:06
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ShellshoQ :
Thank you for your explanation. I really enjoyed reading the book about SAFE. I’m encouraged and understand that doing the work is how you gain capacity. I appreciate the perspective and insight the book provided.
2026-05-25 14:31:41
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🥀rage becomes her🥀 :
thank you for saying this👏 WE don't control our nervous system. it controls US
2026-05-27 21:53:19
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martinhome2 :
This is a real challenge for me I have ADHD so I can appear inconsistent not very helpful when it comes to making someone feel secure especially when they are anxious avoidant we're working on it though
2026-05-27 22:47:49
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Kim England Melton :
Very good explanation.. forwarded to my bf lol
2026-05-22 01:35:41
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bthpt186 :
This is exactly what I'm struggling with my husband. I just sent it to him, We both love each other very much but I'm exhausted. I know he will watch it and I think it will resonate with him. It's a very good description of what's going on. I couldn't describe this to him without him feeling blamed.
2026-06-11 20:41:40
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Gracefully Blessed :
Wow! Finally somebody gets it! 👏👏👏
2026-05-22 01:51:18
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Ivy Miller :
Absolutely loving your content
2026-05-21 22:16:16
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Naomi Arden | Men's Coach :
yessssir 💯🔥
2026-05-22 02:21:50
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Rebecca He :
Thank you for all of your videos 🙌🏻 I have been through it lately and ended it a few weeks ago, still reflecting.
2026-05-30 15:36:47
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leena20211 :
You really understand & explain it so clearly.
2026-05-26 21:24:36
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areyouokiam :
How do we teach capacity, it may be too late for my 72 year old husband. I am hopeful for my young adult children
2026-05-22 14:35:49
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Lydia Charlene Taylor :
I feel so heard
2026-05-22 02:01:44
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analuisa.explica :
First time I heard this and it's so accurate 💔
2026-05-22 09:00:01
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Siyabonga Ntuli :
Basically applying nonchalant tendencies on a surface level within all the emotions n chaos
2026-05-22 10:27:17
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Steph | Midlife Foster Dog Mom :
It takes BOTH
2026-07-03 14:38:35
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Tamrah Marie :
This!! 🙏Safety is based on stability def not intention. 💜
2026-07-05 17:11:32
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Chelsey.🌸 :
This.
2026-06-11 17:58:22
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