@growwithkaela: The chaos that narcissists vs dismissive avoidants cause in your life is different. Both leave you confused and questioning your worth, but one is about control and the other is about self protection. I’ve been with both, and have studied both professionally. Wouldn’t recommend being in a relationship with either one. #narcissism #dismissiveavoidant #attachmenttheory #relationships

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ashleyhammers1
🌸Ashley Dawn🌸 :
This is 100% correct, I am in fact a dismissive avoidant and this is the best version someone can best understand of the two. Only one that sees my emotions when triggered is my partner, and in fact my ex said I was narcissistic(never been told that before). But he misunderstood who I was. Great video.
2026-05-23 23:40:42
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puppyhoney319
Parks :
What happens when a DA gets in a relationship with a narc?
2026-07-20 19:41:39
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kristlecomments
Kristle Comments :
sooooo true
2026-07-14 15:49:39
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lifeslovelost
ŁÎFƐ§ ĹØVƐ Ľº§Ŧ™️ :
Can someone be both?
2026-05-22 08:14:40
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damieneuell
Damien Euell :
I took it personal for a while. Till I realized why I was the only receiver of the “dark side.” The other side of the coin was me needing to innerstand what brought our energies together to begin with. 🪞🪞🪞
2026-06-11 22:40:52
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neff.r.mind
neff r mind :
OK, so based on what you said, I now know that mine was a narcissist because it wasn’t just me. It was family friends, immediate family, and Moore so I’m very glad that I’m tuning in.
2026-05-23 01:45:40
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emdeeemay
Em :
I love your content so much… the way you articulate the dynamic and the DA 🤌🏼🤌🏼🤌🏼
2026-07-10 23:13:09
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moonchick87
Sam :
my ex is both
2026-05-26 22:36:50
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macaroni_20
SLM :
What happens if you get double whammied by both - at the same time! I’m so done
2026-07-24 20:46:35
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ih7842
IH784 :
You are awesome.
2026-05-23 10:14:50
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saragiddings
Sara_without the H :
I wish I could tell the difference in the moment. Sometimes I can't tell if hes one or the other or both or if it's me. We're both broken. so its hard to tell
2026-05-27 15:00:18
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jennifer.johnson430
Jennifer 🩵 Johnson :
Absolutely exhausting!
2026-06-12 04:28:57
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jjlitswd32
Andrew H :
Nailed it
2026-05-23 21:34:58
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tim.the.waterboy
Tim the Waterboy :
Absolutely spot on....
2026-05-22 13:13:32
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user20941576939126
coyote :
Great message
2026-05-22 01:23:30
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thedoxieduotales
TheDoxieDuoTales :
Can someone be both?
2026-05-24 19:52:43
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letsgoalready7
BurntBeenieWeenie :
tell more
2026-05-22 23:14:46
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damieneuell
Damien Euell :
Love your content. I’ve healed from my past and recent wounds. You’ve helped me better understand them. Oddly enough, I have compassion but definitely enforce my boundaries.
2026-06-11 22:39:07
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chelssqnhw3
chacha :
These aren’t mutually exclusive.
2026-05-23 01:47:45
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jey5274
Joanna :
💯🥰 Very true. Attracted to full package woman, who are successful and independent, beautiful…
2026-07-31 18:38:23
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danielleldinidaho
Danielle | Ageless Style ✨ :
Do you think they understand and know they are doing this.
2026-05-22 01:23:10
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stephvavich
Steph Vavich :
Lucky me. I got both wrapped up in 1 traumatic package 💀
2026-05-22 19:24:09
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iwastheshadow
Laura :
Oh…i thought everyone else got all this bullshit too
2026-05-22 20:48:32
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hauuu942
hauuu :
the effects is the same they are worse than narsisit
2026-07-07 09:47:46
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laryssap18
Laryssap :
♥️
2026-07-04 20:24:30
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