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Lilygurl ♡ :
My question is, how do you spot someone early on that has capacity before you invest in them
2026-05-22 18:52:29
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RR1204 :
Just bought this book. It’s hard to change this behavior and even harder to figure out why I struggle. But I’m trying because my wife deserves better. One of my struggles is my wife tells me “you survived 2 wars and work a high stress job but don’t fall apart but as soon as you come home you’re incapable of doing the dishes. Why?” And I struggle to answer that too because even I don’t know why. I just know “the job” needs to get done at work (at war) but once I’m home I can’t get myself going again. Luckily she’s helping me and this book is too. In the end love isn’t enough. Work needs to be put in and it’s my responsibility to put in that work
2026-05-24 01:10:07
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Cathy Sampson :
Brilliant explanation
2026-06-29 17:03:06
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Danielle :
Love isn’t a just a feeling, it’s a choice.
2026-05-22 15:32:36
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. :
I am a women and I am like this 😔 I have sabotaged my 8yr relationship I’ve been learning about about myself and still feel so lost in everything I do
2026-05-22 18:50:00
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☀️nightshadetat🌔🇨🇦 :
Yup. I can tell he loves me but love isnt enough
2026-05-22 21:11:50
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Sarah :
It ended my marriage. Exhausting
2026-05-22 18:12:07
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Ivi45 :
It ended my marriage after 20 years. We are currently “working on things “ even though our divorce was just finalized in Jan. I was hoping after being seperated for 1.5 years now he had worked on himself just like i did. I have changed and no longer tolerating things he did before such as getting loud or defensive or wanting his opinion to be the only one that counts. Well i find myself moving back into my shell and. Ot fully voicing what bothers me. It gives me anxiety to speak to him, he always shuts me down, or i feel like i an speaking to a wall. He explodes fast especially when i am not on his page. I know i am making a choice this time i dont have to stay but again i find it so hard again to have the strength to speak up or leave
2026-05-26 23:56:49
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BarberingDad :
Million dollar game! You know sum
2026-06-11 11:08:33
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𝔟𝔬𝔡𝔶 𝔬𝔣 𝔤𝔬𝔡💦 :
People should pls leave people alone until they heal their childhood traumas
2026-05-24 17:02:48
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Lisa :
It's called emotional maturity which translates to having the emotional capacity to deal with certain situations.
2026-05-23 19:37:47
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user56944712 :
Love your videos.. thank you for all the information. It’s very helpful in understanding our partners.
2026-06-12 13:23:15
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VicsDailyDeals :
It suck’s to learn that after you’re married 😔
2026-05-24 22:18:26
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Usagi Moon :
if love is just a feeling with no action it ain't love dude
2026-05-23 14:56:56
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softlife.6069 :
I wish the man I was divorcing understood this.
2026-06-13 02:06:24
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Maureen S🇨🇦 :
Was I wrong to end this 18 month relationship. It was a lot to handle. Love was there but his trauma was overwhelming.
2026-06-01 12:50:06
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anavibarb :
I love your content so much
2026-05-30 23:19:50
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randibayapptay :
1000%
2026-05-24 13:51:08
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Tifferina :
Yup
2026-05-22 23:28:59
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IM :
love will never be enough
2026-05-22 21:11:21
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ShellshoQ :
Wow… this is a must-read. Unfortunately, I got this book about 25 years too late. I just completed the audiobook, and it truly explained a lot of my shortcomings. I’ve spent most of my life heavily focused on the production side — accomplishing tasks, leading, providing, solving problems, and executing. But I realized that mindset did not always translate well into my personal relationships or my ability to understand emotional capacity, both in myself and others. The skills I use every day professionally could not simply be transferred into emotional awareness and connection. This audiobook helped me better understand that disconnect. It gave language and perspective to areas where I’ve struggled for years. I’m committed to applying the daily 20-minute capacity protocol because I truly believe it can help me grow into a more emotionally available, self-aware, and balanced man. I can’t wait to start the next audiobook. I highly recommend this for men — especially men who have spent their lives producing, sacrificing, leading, and carrying responsibility, but never really learned how to process themselves emotionally.
2026-05-24 17:50:45
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Monnia Oropeza :
How do you build capacity?
2026-05-27 00:00:08
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vanessadanielle007 :
I just don’t have capacity anymore. I have tried for the last 10 years of 21 years.
2026-05-28 09:27:06
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smichelle :
It’s game changing to understand this
2026-06-11 14:03:41
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JJ :
So true wow
2026-06-18 20:56:21
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