@melrobbins: If you’re a chronic complainer, this is the wake‑up call you need. Behavioral researcher and confidence expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai says complaining feels good in the moment… but it keeps you stuck. When you focus on what you can’t control, you reinforce helplessness, drain your energy, and make the situation feel even worse. In this episode of The Mel Robbins Podcast, @Dr. Shadé Zahrai shares a simple framework that breaks that cycle, and helps you feel more in control of your life. Dr. Zahrai also explains why chronic complaining is a symptom of self-doubt and low confidence - and she’s giving you the practical tools you need to stop negative thoughts from running your life. 🎧 “How to Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever & Build Unshakeable Confidence” Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or YouTube - search “Mel Robbins Podcast Self Doubt”

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automaticreleasep
AutomaticReleaseProtocol :
awareness is key. hard to remember
2026-10-29 23:41:22
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maricellahh
Mari :
I feel like I’ve been complaining a lot lately about the things I can’t control this helps a bit
2026-05-23 15:08:32
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prematuredeath.riko
🪽≠!Riri◷ :
Can we talk about how much money we've all wasted?? I added it up after reading The Peasant's Prescription by Grace Wild and nearly fell off my chair. Thousands. Thousands of dollars on things I didn't need.
2026-06-05 15:59:36
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bheemraj2001
Bheem Raj :
Complaining feels like relief in the moment, but it quietly delays action. Real discipline starts when you stop describing the problem and start changing what you do next. Even one small step forward breaks the loop.
2026-05-23 19:26:32
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amy918342
Amy ✨ :
Tbh I am the opposite and it ended up with me having a mental breakdown 👍
2026-05-23 13:30:51
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alifewithlayers
Life With Layers | The Calm OS :
Chronic complaining isn’t a personality trait. It’s what happens when someone feels no agency over their own life design. 🖤
2026-05-23 14:13:40
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beardog863
BearsMom1 :
As someone who is dealing with severe cervical & lumbar issues, I am learning not to complain out loud. 😂
2026-05-23 13:27:23
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unapologeticallylaura
UnapologeticallyLaura :
I complain bc I have no actual control over my life
2026-05-23 15:18:33
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jesuschick27
JD vibes :
“Complaining keeps you stuck.”True…. That stuck with me. And the Bible verse says the same:
2026-05-23 14:53:56
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jessicasteele079
Jessica Steele3575 :
At myself
2026-05-24 04:04:19
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theremotechapter
The Remote Chapter | London :
Energy changes when attention shifts from problems to decisions.
2026-05-23 19:08:15
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truthmatters333
The Creative Healer :
Thanks Mel, I could sit down with you and talk for hours... ❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-23 14:47:51
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kellyfurg1
kellyfurg1 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-05-28 03:57:36
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godisthegreatest.99
𝙻𝙸𝙰𝙼.999 :
Count your blessings
2026-07-13 05:23:49
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tisona.diaries
Tisona :
this is true
2026-05-23 14:14:27
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The Revenge Bros Podcast :
Yes.
2026-05-30 13:04:23
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mauri_1554
Mauricio :
Love it!
2026-05-23 13:03:33
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felicitychiloane :
absolutely 💯
2026-05-23 17:58:34
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carewarriorkingdom
Debra Ahn :
Amen. I choose to change the way I see it.
2026-05-23 15:45:27
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gabe.saladbar
Gabe Saladbar :
Accept, Change, Leave. Perception. What could I do right now? Just do it - Nike
2026-05-23 17:10:26
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karzan4786
Karzan :
Like
2026-05-23 15:45:12
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nbtravelandlife
Travel | Make & Up | LifeStyle :
This is so me 😳 I complain about everything lately and my life is all about shoul have 😂
2026-05-24 20:54:05
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KAYLA DEL M | 2027 BRIDE ✨ :
YES
2026-05-28 17:11:01
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forefrontarmor
Forefront Armor :
It’s all about perspective!! This is so good!
2026-05-25 21:41:27
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