Me N All Them ❌ G7
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James boston :
So actually your very wrong avoidant people actually love very deeply Yes — many people with an avoidant attachment style can love very deeply. What usually looks different is how they handle closeness, vulnerability, and emotional pressure. Someone with avoidant attachment may: * Care intensely but struggle to show it consistently * Pull away when emotions feel overwhelming * Need more space than other partners * Have trouble expressing reassurance or dependence * Fear losing independence or getting hurt so maybe instead of downplaying there experience witch is gaslighting pick better partners or maybe just maybe stop worrying what just makes you happy and figure out someone to understand not to judge cause you don’t walk in there shoes 🙏💪💯
2026-05-24 04:44:28
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Thr33n3rgy :
This hate on avoidants needs to stop. They are hurting as much as the rest of us. I know getting hurt by an avoidant hurts badly. Trust me, it almost drove me away from love. But that's what we need to recognize. Avoidants are in pain and if they loved you to the point of pain then it is an honor to feel pain from the love of an avoidant because YOU are the one who got away and that means you will always be special. To love is to accept and to not wish more pain on someone who is on so much pain that they can't let their own heart feel safe. THAT is true pain. You should always wish the best for those that you truly love. And if you don't wish them the best and to heal, then were you actually the one who didn't love them? My heart breaks with every thought of her, and for that, I wish her the best. Maybe I am not the one to love her like she deserves but as long as she heals and lets herself be loved, then that is a win because WE are the ones that caused them to heal, if they choose to. Healing people help others heal, that is a gift that some can't give. Be thankful for the pain because it is temporary but it reminds you that we understand love and that is strength in its most beautiful form. Love to love, don't love to resent.
2026-06-03 04:37:35
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@§H£€¥ :
a prize is not consistent... a prize is earned or rewarded ...a prize is rare ... 😳
2026-06-30 13:20:21
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Sylvia Demery :
I wish I can hit the like button 10 million times. It still won’t be enough.
2026-05-24 16:59:43
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Jen Kelly :
we don’t think we’re special at all. Best to just leave us alone. Tired of myself too! What we want we are actually pushing away. We are hypocrites and expect others to do the emotional work when we can’t even reassure or do it back! Paralyzed with fear that we do nothing! My advice…. If it’s confusing, it’s not the right person! Run!
2026-06-03 05:04:08
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umad?1989 :
when you talk badly about people it says more about you than it does them. hope this helps
2026-05-25 04:23:49
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nessa :
not all the avoidants feeling some type of way n blame shifting it in the comments , it sucks being on the other end
2026-05-26 13:29:30
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👽PawPaw👽 :
I'm a year from discard/breadcrumbs. The worst pain I've ever felt. 13 years gone! And I still feel sad that she'll never know what true peace brings. I've found my peace in the confusion! Whoever Loves Hardest? Loses! Always Forward!
2026-05-23 20:30:03
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Rico Jimenez586 :
me anxious attachment her avoidant ...I don't hate her just glad I found out seen how it is before I spent more than 4 months with her I can't do it idk how people spend yearssss doing this it hurts soo much my Leo flame can't donit
2026-06-01 23:48:11
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✨Insprational_Mermaid 🧜🏼♀️✨ :
Spent the last few months chasing my avoidant healer. I realized that I was too tired, drained and mentally breaking down. I stopped contact and finally peace is setting in. Just bc I love you & made mistakes doesn’t mean u get to treat me any way you want, you made them too. I’m finally at peace with not giving myself to someone who’s emotionally already gone.
2026-05-24 15:08:09
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jfry865 :
I felt this so deeply, in fact the whole time I thought I wasn’t good enough, I tried changing until I lost myself, now I heal
2026-05-24 01:52:29
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Saint Society :
Healing is choosing not to pass on what hurt you ❤️🩹
2026-06-29 09:02:22
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Laurie :
Best advice I can give is to never lose yourself and don't bend to their rules, it's a give and take from both sides, keep your standards on point so you both respect each other, if that's not possible it's time to leave before you waste your precious time, never lose your happiness 😊🙂😉
2026-05-24 13:10:34
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kdvector :
Spent the last year chasing one. Lost myself. I finally let go and instantly healed….no more anxiety is good for the soul.
2026-05-24 12:28:31
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durbin :
Someone got ghosted 😂
2026-05-24 19:14:21
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preferred trash :
I don't want answers anymore, just distance and clarity
2026-05-24 11:46:14
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Gemini Crystal GEN❌ 1967 :
Love this!!! 🙌
2026-05-23 16:18:07
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IndiJEWnous :
EXACTLY 💯
2026-05-23 21:48:39
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Mónica 🇵🇷🥰 :
Wow! All of this!
2026-05-23 20:38:49
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Moe Sandar Kyaw :
100% true. I only wanted to figure out the answer to his confusion. He thought I was chasing after him, but once I understood why he disappeared and all that, I let him go for life back in 2021. Since then, he’s been the one reappearing — in person, through texts, and calls.
2026-05-24 00:03:28
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Bright Eyes :
Truer words never spoken my beautiful friend. 🙏🏻💞🫂😊
2026-05-22 22:58:46
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unapologetically me :
mine after 4 years finally decided to get help and heal for himself and our family
2026-05-26 10:41:15
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Emsy365 :
I seriously can’t tell if he’s avoidant or just taking me for a ride. My head is an absolute mess but I love him. Bet I sound like a complete idiot 🥺
2026-06-21 13:46:51
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Andrew Cobb :
My ex was a dismissive avoidant. I lasted 3 years and said enough was enough.
2026-06-09 02:59:29
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✨🖤KRISTEN🖤✨ :
Saved this because being discarded by an avoidant is one of the hardest things to move past from
2026-06-26 00:25:17
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