@daughters.healing: A surprising thing that many narcissistic mothers do is cut their daughters hair short. #narcissisticabuse #scapegoatchild #narcissisticmother #covertnarcissist
yes, bc she didn't wanted to brush it for me. I was 4 or 5
2026-05-23 03:06:56
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Bee the Plumber :
Mind. Blown🤯 I was about 7 or 8 years old. She had my hair cut into a literal boy’s style, short back & sides. And even when it wasn’t that short, she would always keep my hair super ugly looking.
2026-05-23 08:58:02
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LlamaLlamita :
Yeah but mainly because I didn't like it tied up and my nursery required for girls to come with their hair tied. I dunno you could be right, but I feel on this occasion my mum wasn't acting out of malice
2026-08-06 05:34:52
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mystiquerising :
OH. MY. GOD. The only things I wanted - long hair and ballet classes (didn’t get either).
2026-05-23 13:19:58
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Kristy 🫶🏼 :
It wasn’t just cut short, I was given a bowl cut, a mullet and continuous bobs that I HATED!
2026-05-23 10:44:31
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Zoë Brashaw :
yes. I hated it. my hair is very long now.
2026-05-23 11:37:01
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Dana McCool :
my mom always wanted my hair short cuz it was curly and she didnt like dealing with it
2026-05-23 02:41:56
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sarahberckenkamp :
My mother told my my hair was not suitable for long hair.
2026-05-23 10:38:08
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Doobroob Foobndlooby :
Thank you for this. I didn't realise I wasn't alone.
2026-05-23 09:20:39
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S M Z H A I R :
As a hairdresser now , some mothers bring their daughters in and ask me to cut it very short , I always ask the child what she wants and then we reach a compromise I will never cut it that short if the child doesn’t want it.
2026-05-23 21:16:18
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Blueskymind :
Pixie cut. I cried every time. I haven’t had short hair since.
2026-05-24 05:53:37
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elenamaria :
She said long hair doesn't suit me
2026-05-23 10:59:59
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DragonMac64 :
Oh no , this was so upsetting. I cried so hard. I feel I never recovered
2026-05-23 00:37:35
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longislandladyshops :
This was me at 9 or 10 and I felt so ugly - it was 1986 I always thought it was bc it was the 80’s. However as I got older and I was a teenager I grew my hair long and it was curly and I got so many compliments and I think she hated that.
2026-05-23 15:01:54
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Terri🌻 :
I had the haircut of little boy. I remember
2026-05-25 05:06:38
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cozzie75 :
I was never allowed long hair as a child
2026-05-23 09:22:06
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the.lucky.mariam :
I thought I was the only one until I just read all comments... thank you!
2026-05-23 16:49:04
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Cherry Knits🍒 :
Nah everyone told me that my hair was a gorgeous auburn color. She dyed it. I didn’t want it dyed and she had those early 2000s chunky highlights put in
2026-08-02 11:59:59
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Emily McQuiston :
Only me, not my older sister.
2026-05-26 03:37:35
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Angeleyes :
my mom was in reverse. She did not allow me to cut my hair
2026-05-24 01:14:34
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Mapi Baez :
🇪🇦🇪🇺 Not only the hair but the clothes. I couldn't choose my own clothes until 21, when I started to earn my own money
2026-05-23 13:44:40
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Gigi :
This! My hair was short af, while my sister had long hair. I never understood why.
2026-05-23 21:09:33
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PuffPuffPass2019 :
My mother kept my hair so short based on her reasoning that short hair is easier. It isn't. Any time in my adult life that I have grown my hair out, she actually got angry. We have been no contact for 4 years.
2026-05-23 13:05:35
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Mabel326 :
I looked like a little boy until 2nd grade
2026-05-24 01:34:23
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Blondie :
Always. I was never allowed to have long hair. I had some really hideous hair cuts as a child and I remember leaving the hairdresser crying and my mother telling me to shut up because I looked fine! I’m 49 and I think I will still have long hair at 89! 😂 My 20 year old son has long hair and I would never insist he cut it. He should be free to be his own person.
2026-05-23 05:58:57
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