GirlthePoet
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KJ Mathias :
The minute I stopped self-abandoning and tried to express feelings and set boundaries, he was gone.
2026-05-24 12:00:20
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Skywalker :
she told me I was the first healthy relationship she had been in and I knew it was about to be a wrap
2026-06-30 21:46:38
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randomness0911 :
his ex before me 3 years. we had 6 months. after he broke up with me i kept thinking "they had it better than us", when actually it didn't have to have been better, just more manageable for them.
2026-05-25 10:18:54
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lucia :
and i’ll forever be thankful i’m free of that. i have an even better relationship with myself now that someone isn’t bringing me down with them
2026-05-24 13:44:11
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Monarch :
I was fighting for my life in the relationship and he kept saying that I was too good for him
2026-05-24 22:54:36
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TheNext40 :
The second I started getting healthier, he was out
2026-05-27 04:08:29
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CTR :
He seemed to have wanted to improve himself and be better (in theory). In practice, he would always do the same thing, again and again
2026-05-25 17:22:09
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★ °•ℍaℝu•°★ :
this is exactly what The Black Book of Wealth by James Cole talks about. that book opened my eyes fr
2026-05-24 18:57:24
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JOYseeker :
Except now I’M UNHEALTHY.
2026-05-25 17:33:12
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Adrielynn :
This is sad but true. Be with someone willing to grow with you.
2026-06-01 13:10:14
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Scott :
it worked for her for 16 years because o allowed it it. the moment I put my foot down and her mask started slipping, it was down hill from there
2026-05-25 21:12:47
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evan :
I've only been in 1 relationship (we were 16) and talked to like 4 other girls, realistically 3. Feels like I've met different versions of the same person. It'll never hurt as bad as it did the first time but it still sucks that people see how rare I am and still consciously run back to the type of connections that allow them to wallow in their own misery 24/7 while still getting hits of attention
2026-05-28 06:53:28
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robbwilliamz_ :
Never again.
2026-05-24 12:48:46
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luthienb :
Thank you so much, I really really really needed this 🙏
2026-05-25 06:15:50
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honeymoonave33 :
He said he was open to trying again. I told him what I needed from him. He said wanted to think about it and he would call me. Never called it’s been 3 weeks.
2026-05-25 17:10:12
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jlo_world ♡ :
THIS VIDEO IS GOLD. I lived through this.
2026-05-25 01:51:00
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Redhotredhead♥️ :
Thank you. I NEEDED to hear this.
2026-05-24 20:03:45
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Midtown.Chikin :
TRUTH!!! You nailed it.
2026-05-24 12:55:40
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Chelsea Mullett :
I’m trying to figure out if I’m actually avoidant or if I have developed avoidant traits through trauma. I am the person who can make it work with unhealthy people until they moved on. I also am pushing people to be better and giving it my all. I feel like I am directly in the middle and it creates a lot of confusion.
2026-05-25 12:53:20
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sodats_gee :
I was with mine for 15 years. Everytime i challenged or called them out on poor behaviors they discarded a total of 3xs.
2026-05-24 22:44:30
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gabby :
this
2026-05-24 17:44:58
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Kevin Tatum :
Nobody should be trying to change their partner.
2026-05-26 01:38:00
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ShaOoSh :
Setting this as my alarm lmao
2026-05-26 12:13:40
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JANN :
I think there’s some truth to this because most of the things that people say I don’t really agree with. I am fully against self abandonment because I can feel when someone is doing that and I don’t like it -probably one of the top things that makes me pull away from somebody when you’re doing too much for me. But I also recognize when some people are really solid and steady and they really wanna be a part of my life and I can’t feel that full attraction with them I just can’t there. I don’t know is it normal to be attracted to attention because it has the opposite effect on me. Please stop giving me tons of attention. I’d like to think that if you give me the space to like really want you in my life to really feel something for you I would want that. But I think I have to make that choice first and nobody really gives me the space to do that
2026-05-26 15:10:53
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M3L3RB3 :
I agree… Because we don’t want to be challenged. Life is hard enough… we want someone who we can be our genuine selves with, without question.
2026-05-25 17:23:11
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