@callherdaddy: “At a certain point, you either have to start to pull away from those type of friends that can’t celebrate you or you kind of have to call them out”
wedding culture is SO weird. people need to realize that no one cares about your wedding as much as you do and not everyone needs to center their own lives around your life event. -signed someone planning a wedding
2026-05-25 00:11:29
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Kylie Ford :
No one wants to hear about someone’s wedding / baby / husband 24/7. Some updates? Yes, so excited. The only information that exists? No. 😅
2026-05-24 19:51:01
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jamie lynne 🐾 :
It takes a lot of emotional maturity to put your own feelings aside and BE THERE for your friends
2026-05-24 20:59:41
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Sydnee 2️⃣🚪 :
Wait these comments are CRAZZYYY. Sis let’s talk wedding, let’s talk new job, let’s talk baby, like WHATEVER. If you guys want a village, be a villager. Getting married it a big deal! I cannot imagine not talking wedding non stop! As long as she’s okay still knowing about your own life I don’t see the problem??
2026-07-20 04:42:57
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Samantha :
If you can not be excited for your friends in their season of life and be there for them, then don’t expect them to be there when it happens for you. That’s not friendship and so weird.
2026-05-25 05:21:42
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Katie :
I lost friends when I got engaged. These “ride or die’s” didn’t celebrate me at all.
2026-05-24 18:52:31
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Abbey | Carley | Julie :
When I was wedding planning, I felt like people were happy for me, but very few people were happy with me, if that makes sense.
2026-05-25 06:14:52
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𖥸Jҽɳɳα𖥸 :
Getting married sucks. People act weird. Lots of disappointment. You have to lean into those who are excited for you and your partner.
2026-05-25 21:22:42
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PB224 :
Yes weddings are amazing but U DONT GET TO BE THE CENTER OF ATTENTION FOR ONE WHOLE YEAR!! Like it’s crazy to me that some people think it’s okay to only talk about themselves/not check in with their friends. No other event (graduation, new job, baby, etc is treated the same and this is not normal!) - signed someone planning ther own wedding right now
2026-05-25 23:10:54
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francescastill2000 :
The people saying “I don’t care to hear about it” or “there are better things to talk about”… that’s not the point 😭 This is your FRIEND - she’s excited!! You don’t have to feel equally excited l but putting up with conversations you may not be 100% invested in all the time is actually very normal for two-way healthy friendships.
2026-05-24 21:58:59
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lissy041 :
My issue is that the person planning the wedding, having the baby, etc deserve being celebrated just like their friends who got their masters, got a new pet, bought a house, started a business etc and it rarely happens and can feel one sided
2026-05-25 18:58:34
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christina_vnt :
my friend was getting married and I went through a breakup and a situationship during planning, YOU BEST BELIEVE I WAS THERE FOR EVERYTHING
2026-05-24 21:09:52
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Dr. Erica | KC Therapist :
Wow the comment section seems to be missing a really big aspect of this, grief.
2026-05-25 19:32:38
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Nati Ferreyra :
those are not friends. period
2026-05-27 20:40:37
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Budge :
Or the world doesn’t stop when you get married and people want to hear about you as a person and not just the tablescapes and party favors.
2026-05-26 21:29:45
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del.hamilton :
real friends will be excited and let u talk about it
2026-05-28 01:37:03
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G :
Being single has nothing to do with being excited for your friends..
2026-05-26 16:20:38
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Yesi AngeGardien :
Everyone is happy for you until you are doing better than them…. Is what someone told me— now it seems real.
2026-05-29 01:18:06
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Sach :
I’m a bitter single person BUT I WILL BE HANDS ON DECK FOR MY BEST FRIENDS’ WEDDINGS me being single or in a bad relationship is a me problem why would it be my beautiful besties fault?
2026-05-24 22:48:59
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Mima :
Idk. Do you guys give your friends as much space for non-wedding milestones ?
2026-05-25 17:14:19
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Ashley :
I’m expecting to be engaged this year and the fact I don’t even know who I could be excited about it with has me so sad. :(
2026-05-24 15:15:50
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Tori Osteraa :
Something really clicked for me recently when I realized how careful I am with my happiness around so many people in my life. When I started owning my happiness, I noticed a huge shift in those friendships. When I’m helping them through hard things, they love me…when I have things to celebrate they’re too bitter to give me the time of day or just ignore it.
2026-05-25 18:03:49
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Michelle:Lifestyleandfashion🌟 :
I want to hear it ALL!!!!!!! I love my girls so much that i want to hear it all. I want to hear the happiness and the joy!
2026-07-20 20:13:57
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anni✰ :
and unfortunately this is true!
2026-05-24 17:46:17
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I’montiktok8 :
I don’t care about weddings personally (I eloped) but I care about my friends and that includes their wedding
2026-05-24 22:00:20
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