I live my life considering others. I don’t make new friends because I don’t have the capacity to add more people to the list of people I have to take into consideration.
2026-05-26 12:03:20
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Kymberlea O :
Is this why I can’t make friends. I just think everybody is weird asf. 😭
2026-05-25 05:19:38
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stefficheonmeat :
A lack of consideration for me now will only lead to distance and detachment. How others choose to interpret that is beyond my control. I simply step away and move on.
2026-05-31 06:52:54
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Amiee Garza :
Took me a long time to realize that this wasn’t just common sense
2026-05-25 18:28:37
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pxttybxby📚 :
this! i was newly dating someone and he had invited me over for dinner and he made stir fry. the night before i told him how much i despised peppers of any kind. what was in the stir fry you ask? i think we can guess. i also think we can guess how many times i saw him after that. some of my friends told me it was too harsh but honestly it showed me his level of consideration for others, and while that may be fine for some i deserve to be considered in the ways i consider others so it’s a no for me.
2026-05-26 21:08:43
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Laureatka :
yep and taking on everyone's problems/life crises as my own - was the biggest issue for me personally and I've just figured out this month and working towards change 😭😭
2026-05-24 19:35:21
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mariah :
as the oldest daughter, I felt this in my bones
2026-05-26 00:38:06
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Busy_being_myself :
Took my a while to accept that not everyone is hyper aware of their surroundings or situations and their lack of quickly taking initiative like me is because they never had to constantly be on their toes! And thats ok- ive also learned to slow down now that im in my 30s
2026-05-26 14:03:48
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PetalMetal :
Or when you meet a friend and they automatically emotionally collapse on you and run everything by you even though the can just google it . I can’t anymore
2026-06-01 09:01:14
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y🛴🖇️i :
I love the fact that you did not elaborate cause we IN FACT do not want to explain all the time. Cause what do you mean i get it and you don’t when we receive the exact same info? 😩😂
2026-05-31 09:08:12
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bre_oaks25 :
Always considering, never considered. It’s my karmic curse apparently 😕
2026-06-07 20:27:37
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ડ𝗈𐓣𐓣ɣოυ𐓣𝗋𝗈౿ :
lack of reciprocity is honestly draining and i've later realized that consideration is a choice not an initiave
2026-05-31 17:17:33
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s :
This because why do I have to tell you to consider me because “I have to communicate” but you don’t have to tell me anything for me to consider you??!
2026-05-29 16:26:03
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Emily :
i’ve found my people
2026-06-10 16:25:25
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Lo :
Consideration goes a looooong way
2026-06-09 02:29:08
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phinahairsbackup :
the girls that get it , get it
2026-05-29 05:29:23
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Maritza :
amén 🙏🏼✨ we feel so much deeper, I feel.
2026-05-25 16:28:12
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Regina🤪🙃 :
I wasn’t parentified I was an only child that always lived with different family members so I learned to be independent very young so I get irritated quick
2026-05-28 02:30:43
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V :
It was ALWAYS that serious.
2026-05-26 05:31:21
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anitasworldddd :
Guys it’s ok for us to live too, forgive yourself ml😭
2026-05-28 17:33:32
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LittleGreenApples 🍏🍏 :
I just gave up on having any relationships whatsoever. I give all of my consideration to myself.
2026-05-30 01:38:56
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Heather :
FYP is very locked in today.
2026-05-26 20:00:42
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