midlife.maincharacter
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H RVNL :
I thought I had my person I'd been looking for. Everything was perfect, then suddenly, I'm dropped like a stone. It's absolutely soul destroying.
2026-06-08 15:09:37
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_av :
first time too. still recovering. now my algo is all about avoidants
2026-06-05 18:22:32
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manda ^,...,^ :
I’ve dealt with this a few times and I think im going through it right now, and as a person who can lean avoidant, just because they left out of the blue it doesn’t mean it wasn’t genuine
2026-06-13 21:50:34
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Jondoe :
1.5 months post discard… still dealing with cognitive dissonance…. It really fucking sucks.
2026-06-10 21:40:02
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caits.diary_ :
The switch up gave me whiplash, felt like my entire reality was a lie 💔
2026-05-25 17:55:51
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Catalinda :
It was a really short time together but it’s really messing with my head. I never felt this hurt before. It’s so overwhelming
2026-06-11 04:51:49
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James K :
It’s a trip ain’t it. They say they were unhappy for a long time but man I get need a golden globe then for acting.
2026-06-11 20:53:50
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Timotat0 :
It’s been a year and a half since and I still feel like it was yesterday. Any new relationship my mind keeps rewinding so quick I get lost in the past. I don’t know what to do
2026-06-13 04:39:12
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C3li 😎 :
Yup! Mine took 3-4 months, ghosting began around 3 months in. Then we took another vacation together and things got worse instead of better! We been on off for 3 years now. I’m done! It never changes! Same cycle! RUN!
2026-06-10 16:40:06
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chris🪼 :
I felt this, he switched up so quickly and then always kept saying “I’m sorry” over and over again.
2026-06-07 05:12:12
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Jacob :
We “wanted two different things” no further explanation, total 180 overnight. So strange. I don’t get it still
2026-06-12 10:07:40
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ThatoHatsi🤍 :
It's weird because everything was good then the next day he literally told me that he needs space then disappeared after that... Now the thing is I'm friends with his sister and this past weekend I was at his place and he saw me but still decided to bring his new girl around me... I'm proud of myself that I didn't react or spiral over that but one thing I know for sure is that I'm done.
2026-06-11 14:54:01
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Lea :
Yep. Such sweet messages night before and then bit of breadcrumbs before ghosting
2026-05-26 15:45:11
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787 :
She just blocked me on insta but I'm still added elsewhere? but she wont respond anywhere and I'm left so confused
2026-05-25 10:47:21
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Summer :
Traumatised for life
2026-05-26 22:56:19
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DobermanDan :
It literally deconstructs your life. You take a completely different life path discovering that actually a lot of the people around you whether it's family, friends etc are similar in traits/personality
2026-05-25 18:14:06
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nwizzieb :
It’s been nearly two years and it still breaks my heart. I thought I had found my person 😭
2026-05-25 20:07:43
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Nicola Baker :
Don’t go back, you’ll have to keep going through it like Groundhog Day until you can’t anymore
2026-05-26 13:38:32
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Late :
unfollowed me on instagram and tiktok but doesnt block me on other apps, keeps my location and stuff. what does she even mean... im so confused, do i even deserve love 😭
2026-06-09 05:09:39
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NAY :
Heartbreaking
2026-05-25 09:21:43
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Bill :
Such an amazing time it was when i was with her and the switch was crazy left me wondering
2026-05-25 11:22:25
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𝓙𝓾𝓵𝓲 .𝓪’ 💋 :
OKAY so I’m ain’t crazy thanks
2026-05-24 20:17:00
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mjanvier93 :
Let me share my experience. I started dating an avoidant partner in February 2025. At first, everything was going well, but after an argument, I went to work and came home to find that he was gone—no explanation, no conversation, nothing. He ghosted me for two months and then came back. Things were good again for about three months, and then, without any warning, he disappeared for another seven months. When he returned, he swore he had changed. I made the mistake of taking him back, and for a while things were better than they had ever been. But when he realized he couldn’t control me the way he wanted to, he left again. This time, I let him go. I am truly mentally exhausted from the experience. Personally, I would never date someone with this pattern of behavior again. If you’re seeing these kinds of red flags early on, my advice would be to save yourself the heartache and walk away while you still can
2026-06-09 13:22:16
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silichilly :
first time too, currently happening lol
2026-06-11 19:57:30
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Tuy :
Never again
2026-06-09 07:32:42
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