@the_control_code: Singer named it in cults. Stark named it in marriages. Bancroft named it in abuser intervention. The pattern doesn’t change — only who’s willing to call it what it is. #CoerciveControl #NarcissisticAbuse #gaslighting #DARVO #BookTok

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@the_control_code: Singer named it in cults. Stark named it in marriages. Bancroft named it in abuser intervention. The pattern doesn’t change — only who’s willing to call it what it is. #CoerciveControl #NarcissisticAbuse #gaslighting #DARVO #BookTok

@the_control_code: Singer named it in cults. Stark named it in marriages. Bancroft named it in abuser intervention. The pattern doesn’t change — only who’s willing to call it what it is. #CoerciveControl #NarcissisticAbuse #gaslighting #DARVO #BookTok

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✪Lallie Burns✪ :

I was born into Scientology and honestly watching how my parents see the world is like watching upside down land. For some reason I never fell for it and I’d be threatened and put in ethics weekly as a kid for not agreeing with what they were trying to indoctrinate me with.

Lotte :

I undoubtedly recognise every point

The@lchemist :

this.. and then there was the 'friendgroup' out of nowhere..

Bugsi :

This!

rockydennisville :

controlling sleep too....

Outlander :

I spent in this dynamic all my life 😳 at first — my parents, and then 25 years in marriage

Jurassicaaa :

I always said coming out of an abusive relationship was like leaving a cult! I got brainwashed

sunflowerdreamer :

What part does our culture play? Do we have accessible secure housing, food, protection etc for vulnerable people to leave when they need to?

skyegreye :

this is so true

funaddict444 :

Folie a deux

Ali R :

😁😁😁

Susannah Lopez :

😂

Bugsi :

@Jo Cooper

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