@mindbrainbodylab: Attachment isn't a personality type; it's a map that can be updated. Your style is less about "who you are" and more about the strategy your nervous system learned to use to try and keep you safe. The goal isn't to be perfectly secure in every moment; it's to understand where you are so you can choose your next healthy move. If you've been repeating the same push-pull patterns after heartbreak, your style is the culprit. Knowing your location on the map is the first step to rewiring the entire pattern. You're not broken, you're just using an old map. #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyle #avoidantattachment #disorganizedattachment #dating