@elly.psychologist: Struggling to tell the difference between normal conflict and an emotionally abusive relationship? In a healthy relationship, both people take accountability, try to understand each other, and work towards resolution. In an emotionally abusive relationship, one person rarely takes responsibility, always finds a way to blame you, and never makes real changes. Arguments feel endless and emotionally draining, with no real resolution. If you feel stuck in a cycle of blame and confusion, it could be a sign of an emotionally abusive relationship. Recognising these patterns is the first step to understanding what you’re experiencing #emotionalabuse #relationshipabuse #emotionallyabusiverelationship #abusiverelationship #relationshiptok
Elly | Counseling Psychologist
Region: GB
Monday 25 May 2026 17:30:00 GMT
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John Amodeo, PhD :
Good thoughts! Very consistent with my videos. Thanks for sharing your experience and Wisdom.
2026-05-27 06:10:50
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bizbillette :
And then you have to get the relationship out of the dark without pointing they’re the problem 😮💨
2026-05-26 19:46:28
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Erica Sireno :
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2026-05-29 06:20:58
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Val.Tee :
This helps. Thank you.
2026-05-25 19:05:00
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IsekaiMePls🌎 :
thank you for posting
2026-05-26 00:50:51
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vegg plate :
Love you❤️😉
2026-05-26 07:35:04
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Tra Cey :
My husband first finds a way to blame me (my tone or he finds something in the middle of the conflict with something I did or said in relation to his dismissal of me), if that doesn’t work, I’m impossible to talk to or overreacting. The argument will then go in circles with me defending myself when I’m the one who brought up an issue. We both go to bed angry. He wakes up like 50 first dates and everything is wonderful and if I don’t play along I’m back in bitch box. I am happy now to be the villain in his story. Oh and the divorce I am now getting came out of nowhere 😳
2026-05-25 21:58:56
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chelseahg25 :
And when you get to the edge, ready to leave, they suddenly take accountability for one small thing, and you think things are improving and stay. And then that thing they accounted for becomes the immediate next attack
2026-05-26 11:59:11
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Russell Goebel :
Not only did my abuser not take accountability, but after I spent an hour sharing every way I could see things from their perspective, an hour long talk where I validated their concerns and explained what I could do better, when I started saying what hurt me I got: "Oh, so all of that was a lie that meant nothing then?" The only option with them was me 100% at fault, anything else they's spin as abuse or insincerity.
2026-05-27 05:41:58
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Cindy & Color ❤️ Clicks :
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2026-05-27 01:02:15
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