@dobetterjonathan: This is why my wife never has to ask me to clean. — Recapping how we’ve grown and learned a lot about carrying the mental load and cleaning the house with a throwback to one of the first videos that I ever posted. I’m excited to still continue this journey of being a better partner. #dobetter #mentalload #cleaningmotivation #menwhoclean #marriage

lowkeythat.1guy :

I never understood this because if you lived alone, who would you “ask” 🤔

stacydensley :

What's exhausting for me is I give him the list, so I think it's done and check it off my mental list. Later I find out they're not all done, so I have to question what else is not done, and have trouble remembering what was on his list because I had mentally checked it off.

user765218903 :

Nicholas Cage cushion just

Kimberly K :) :

The mental load! Nice job!

Lakeside Gardens :

If my husband ever asks me for a list of things he can do I am going to use chat gpt to create the mostly insanely long list

Logandidmyhair :

This one may have a podcast

niamh <3 :

Zoe :

I’m okay with doing this once or twice because I understand he genuinely might not have much experience. But he needs to know after that!!

MoMo :

this gentleman may have a microphone 🥰

Gina✨Motherhood✨ :

He would ask for daily tasks … he would never do those tasks but find something else to do … so i gave up now i just do everything once the baby is in bed :)

lemonie.kisses :

his page pleeeeeasse

Michelle De Vincenzo :

I have my list when I have to clean the house, i just do something and have him doing the rest. It’s not esausting at all

Womblebats🇦🇺❤️💛🖤🐨 :

I’m done doing it, I’m just done. I’ve tried telling him he needs to figure it out on his own but it’s been 7 years and i have to check out of the marriage completely for my own sanity.

Mila :

Reposting so he can see it on his FYP 😩

CassandraZ :

Fair play book and cards seem to be a good way to see it visually

Jocelyn :

Excellent post

Oliwka🔫 :

Thank u for your service

JustJoyWins :

His fyp not mine

MatchaMinx :

that's great that you're being confident and working independently that's important. at least if she does ask you'll do something I don't even have that.

s4ngrita🍾 :

why my fyp

Luli :

I’ve always said, as long as he’s trying I’m staying. This is the definition of that 🤍

evie :

do you want a medal?

rai <3 :

Not my fyp, thank yew🤭

created2shine :

This! We want a partner, not another child.