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JJ :
You have a mom who is unhealed and wounded. She loves you dearly but is emotionally broken with an over worked nervous system living in survival mode. She means the best and wants the best for you, she doesn't realize how bad she needs to take care of herself first because she's never put herself first. Give her grace and pray that she finds her healing. I know because I've been her. Much love young king.
2026-05-27 22:24:58
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Pretty.Little.Liar😘 :
I’m her nd I’m trying to heal nd do better for my kids
2026-05-28 01:04:36
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Xhristian🕷️ :
The person you love the most also is the person who makes you hurt the most
2026-06-10 02:11:13
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Cinderella :
Just remember, it’s our first time living also.
2026-05-27 23:34:34
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Melissa 🪷 :
I am the mom. This hit me hard! I pray about it I am trying.
2026-05-27 21:39:05
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Jazz :
as a mom of 2 boys, I dont like that a lot of these comments are invalidating your feelings. sometimes the best that someone is doing including parents is just not enough. you entitled to feel how you feeling and its your mom's responsibility to do the work. I'm sorry this is your experience and as you get older dont forget that you can make different choices so that what you are experiencing dont impact how you show up for yourself and your future children if you decide to have any.
2026-05-28 07:12:35
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Rocio Everything :
Hey baby I read this as if my son were telling me this because this is how I believe he feels sometimes but just know we are trying. It’s hard to be an adult and all we want is to guide u down the right path. Not cause we know it all but because we lived thru some rough times and the last thing we want is for our babies to go thru any of the garbage we been thru. Keep yourself and your mom in prayers always. ♥️
2026-05-27 23:50:35
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Veronica Hernan82158 :
As an overstimulated momma I'll work on it. My trauma and burdens are not theirs and when I get overstimulated my attitude and words DO NOT reflect my love for them!💜
2026-05-27 22:29:02
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⃟ :
mann i forever luv my mom but sometimes she rlly be on some bs smh
2026-05-26 17:59:17
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SPREADAWARENESS :
Y’all make sure y’all aren’t dismissing his experience…
2026-05-28 10:49:23
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Cecy Medina :
maybe learn how to appreciate her and dnt judge her for being overstimulated
2026-05-28 00:53:27
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GeminiWorld :
As a momma here that’s healing herself and attempting to heal my kiddos I thank you for this post. I can’t speak for your mom but I can tell you as a momma we love our babies. And often times we are doing this thing called life alone. And most times we don’t have a support system. What I will suggest is talk to your mom. Hug your mom and let her know you love her. And always always go home. That’s a mother’s worse fear is not knowing where their heartbeat is. Go home and talk to her.
2026-05-28 23:10:36
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Collin! :
I rlly need someone to just listen and not try and solve my problems
2026-05-27 03:05:11
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Yeahyae :
It’s always give grace to the parent but what about us their child when do we get the grace ?
2026-05-28 17:29:39
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doubtful :
I havent talked to my mom in 8 months today, my heart has been hurting for those 8 months
2026-05-27 13:15:28
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keya_keya3 :
I'm a play devils advocate a lil. I understand how you feel. I respect that you came forward with those feelings. But has the "how" been addressed? How did it get to this from both ends. A conversation needs to be had because neither party can read minds.
2026-05-28 09:31:12
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kelsey kram :
I swear we dont mean too just tough being a single mom providing and making sure all the kids are good bills are paid we love you im this mom an i hate it 😭😭
2026-05-28 12:01:40
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BocaChula_Suzy :
Have you considered she's pouring into from an almost empty cup.
2026-05-28 02:35:40
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NurseAriee :
Silent repost 😩 I be missing my mom so much but she drains me to talk to her everyday . She has given me the shirt off her back and will do it any day for me & my daughter but the second we talk she becomes so negative , intrusive and continues to gossip about other people like we all aren’t out here tryna figure this life thing out! And I’m the opposite I’m so humble , thankful for what/ who I have , acceptant to my mistakes and genuinely like to talk about how we can better ourselves as people but she’s just so opposite & negative and it hurts. I realized we were the closest when I poured my life in hers but the second I stopped , matured and started handling and minding my own business she barely picks the phone up now. But time heals all wounds they say.
2026-05-28 12:02:54
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KayRene :
I promise you. You mean the world to her, she is carrying more than she can unpack. Pray for her, love her deeply but with some distance if you need... but please please always go home.
2026-05-28 01:07:56
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king_ashley3 :
omg FINALLY SOMETHING I CAN AGREE TOO. she's not as terrible as other moms....but.... she damn sure couldve been better...but she did her best... being a mom myself it not easy ...but it made me realize its more to being a parent....
2026-05-28 17:46:12
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Nikki❌️ :
This is hurting me so bad cause this once was me, I had to regroup myself. Im just glad I caught myself while my babies were still young. Now today my middle child brings those days back up, all I could do was apologize and let them know exactly what was going on with me and the reasons I changed my ways.
2026-05-28 09:54:19
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that.ginger2 :
You explained this perfectly. It was js an underlying guilt I’ve felt but personally my ma js been thru so much shit anything I’m doing or going through could seem so big to me but very very little to her. an it js gets to me sometimes
2026-05-27 06:21:54
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AbsolutelyNot_kayla :
So it means she loves you but maybe wasn’t given the recipe for the cake just the ingredients. As we get older it’s normal to see things differently about our parents. Things we’d want to differently. She gave you that and it’s up to you to take that and create a better life for yourself. People can only do what they know really, so as you grow try to be cognizant of the things that you felt weren’t ok so you do not recreate the same environment. 🥰🥰🥰 You got this kiddo. Life is hard and finding reasons of why hardships are lessons is even harder. But so worth it. Because this is just the beginning of a very long journey might as well be happy in it. 🥰
2026-05-30 14:06:59
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CHARLIEROSE🌹 :
Still go home baby it’s safe love ❤️
2026-05-28 03:06:31
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