It’s a trauma response. As a child or adult you needed help at some point and didn’t get it. Triggering hyper independence in times you needed help. We thrive in a community, we need to have people step in when we can’t do something or just to hear us out. You’re healing because you’re brining it to light. Keep going girlfriend ❤️it’s not a problem, it just something that has happened to you 🥰
2026-05-28 02:22:23
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Demé :
hyper independence. (learned through not being able to rely on others.)
2026-05-27 10:00:14
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Amy :
Capricorn?
2026-05-26 19:39:23
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Al :
No same I will try to solve it a thousand times before I get help ever
2026-05-26 23:06:22
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Brooke :
Hi it’s me 🙋🏻♀️I’m the exact same way and I do not know why.
2026-05-27 10:11:18
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estorilnikkie :
Oh damn same. I started putting my phone on dnd and letting the battery die when I flare or get sick. Makes my mom super not happy.
2026-05-26 23:31:45
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Jacko :
no same
2026-05-27 14:42:13
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aviekulseth :
yay first!!!
2026-05-26 19:25:59
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Kelly :
Same
2026-05-26 22:30:52
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Jenni_ber 🇨🇦 :
I don’t I don’t know, but I’m a jam and it’s really hard for me to ask for help or even show emotions sometimes so if you find out, please let all of us know
2026-05-27 00:12:20
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Marcy Bastings :
it's from narcissistic abuse 😕
2026-05-26 20:55:00
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Jo🌞 :
I want a bri and Tana yap sesh. I fear I’d listen on repeat my family would disown me
2026-06-02 03:45:54
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💟🪽🦋 :
having a heart issue. went to work. work for 2 hours. then refused to ask for a ride to the ER. nurse said no you are slurring you have to have a ride. myocarditis and a 4 day stay. what is that.
2026-05-27 13:06:09
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Cam Aberdeen :
Childhood, girl, always childhood.
2026-05-27 08:20:15
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Sybren :
Because every time you’ve asked for help, people have used it against you at one point.
2026-05-27 18:25:56
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SETHsirSKI :
Wet squirrel
2026-05-28 12:41:01
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ltmh4909 :
I thought it was called Gen x, but you are way too young.
2026-05-27 03:11:56
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Charlotte Mcinnes :
Girl me ☠️
2026-05-27 01:41:23
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Marqi :
I become physically ill when I finally give in to asking for help
2026-05-26 21:58:11
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raeanne :
No because same. Why would inconvenience my husband with me not feeling good
2026-05-26 19:38:14
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meg eades :
💯💯💯
2026-05-27 05:25:15
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kurrupted_kennels :
That’s good to know. ❤️attack vibes
2026-05-26 20:57:36
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