My gf is avoidant attachment and im the most impatient person on the planet yet we somehow make it work
2026-06-15 18:14:19
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𝔞𝔩𝔩𝔦𝔞⁷ :
As an avoidant I swear I love you. I know I do. But after you hurt me trusting to open back up is hard. I just need a little patience.
2026-05-29 04:25:36
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jae ⚜️ :
“just leave” avoidant people deserve to feel loved too, the avoidance we have isn’t a lack of care or love it’s just a trauma response and it’s not easy to overcome. but with treatment like this from a loved one, it gets better i promise
2026-05-29 18:58:52
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deeznutzinyo :
these comments really dont get it
2026-05-29 07:43:22
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cali jane🫶🏼 :
ppl saying “js leave them” don’t realize that these are real ppl who deserve to be in relationships and feel loved too
2026-05-30 04:37:09
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madsi bear :
i feel horrible for the people who love me.
2026-05-30 12:44:36
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kaylie ྀི :
they hating but they don’t know what it’s like I felt all of these
2026-05-29 04:10:10
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sxzjia :
this is the sweetest thing ever
2026-05-30 13:28:37
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Julia_07 🌀🦋🐺 :
As an avoidant girl, I never had a relationship and it sounds hell but this way, it sounds almost good for me. I just know I won’t find someone like that
2026-05-30 07:46:37
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those who get it, get it
2026-05-29 22:55:34
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yularen☆(space latino suprem) :
may this love find me
2026-05-30 07:17:57
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jo 🍓 :
oh so to be loved is to be seen
2026-05-30 06:53:37
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kiyah_2222 :
Well yall don’t have to do this because he clearly actually loves his gf and wants a future with her.
2026-05-29 15:26:18
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angelo :
i think people misunderstand this kind of advice. it’s not saying “drain yourself for someone” it’s saying learn how your partner feels loved and communicate better with them. if you’re the only one adjusting and your needs are never met, then yeah, that becomes unhealthy.
2026-06-01 02:35:57
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