"treat people how you want to be treated" but if I treat someone how they treat me it's the end of the world gotta be the bigger person
2026-05-27 01:12:40
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yerd :
“Stop expecting yourself out of everyone else” was the most influential thing a therapist has ever said to me
2026-05-27 01:34:07
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RiverwestRich :
I wish I knew to tell you. I don't know either.
2026-06-12 20:29:40
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jenniferrose750 :
i consistently forget that lying exists and it burns me every time
2026-05-27 07:18:32
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Skym :
I don't think you're stupid. I have made a conscious decision that I would rather be naive and hopeful than jaded and cynical.
2026-05-27 02:55:09
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Diana Mclaren :
Yeah I feel that way… I’m also recently diagnosed autistic.
2026-05-28 04:04:29
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Maggie :
I am 40 years old and my brain melted a couple weeks ago when I realized that yes, people do actually consider my perspective and they just don’t care. 😬
2026-05-28 07:56:41
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sevas__tra :
Same. Learned I’m autistic.
2026-05-27 21:47:39
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Empress Honesty :
Be nice to everyone. Clock how ppl treat you ,and intentionally move towards reciprocal relationships.
2026-05-28 11:06:55
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Lee Otter :
yeah I'm the same kind of stupid
2026-05-27 05:32:42
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cstephaniem17 :
Just learned this 6 months ago- im 33. Im dumber😭
2026-05-27 21:18:41
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Mikaila :
Go into it knowingly, awake to the risk but doing so anyway. Choosing softness is an act of defiance. But protect yourself by trusting your instincts, practice no as a full sentence and treat yourself as kindly as you do others, even if it means walking away.
2026-05-30 02:13:12
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Dr. Bitchcraft 🚬 :
You’re better off being like this tho. The universe will balance it all out in your favor
2026-05-28 19:23:48
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Danny Burbol :
"do no harm, take no shit" is a core phrase in my book about communication and boundaries for good people who nolonger want to be taken advantage of.
2026-05-27 20:34:31
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Renee :
First meeting is benefit of the doubt. After that adjust accordingly. That's literally it.
2026-05-27 13:36:56
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🫧xena🫧 :
Barney lied to us and i’ll never forgive him for that
2026-05-27 14:09:52
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Saba Riley 🦋 🍁 :
cautiously optimistic, with an emphasis on caution
2026-05-30 02:46:54
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Aynx :
1. Always start out civil and kind but not overly invested
2. Observe
3. Match their energy
2026-05-29 23:45:42
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Jocelyne :
idk man but if you find out lemme know
2026-05-27 02:45:45
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Marife 🇵🇭 :
don't let the cruelty of others soil your kind heart.
keep assuming goodness in people but develop the strength to walk away when they prove you wrong.
2026-05-27 11:11:30
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AshaAsena :
You don’t treat people well in hopes of a reward. You will be disappointed every time. You treat people well because it’s the right thing to do. And if they don’t treat you well in return, feel free to match their energy. Always start in the right. Adjust your behavior as you go. “Hope for the best. Expect the worst.” Is one of my life’s mottos
2026-05-30 16:11:59
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Kristine Freelund :
Oh oh!!!! I know this one! We get cats and slowly become antisocial
2026-05-27 22:14:18
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FyraAvery :
You can be nice without being a door Mat. Relationships are not transactional but they are reciprocal so if you give nice and kind and they give disrespect then you don't have a relationship so walk away and tell them to keep that energy for themselves you don't want it.
2026-05-27 07:07:04
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Jamie Alex :
Me in dating thinking someone I give a level of effort to will return said effort 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2026-05-27 02:40:26
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Jojaloo :
Relatable lol. You gotta beef up your boundaries. Believe people when they show you who they are and redirect that kindness elsewhere - to other kind people and to yourself
2026-05-28 14:27:36
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