@bustuh: No one understands how deeply Avoidants love, and how the fear lies even deeper than the hope. Love isn’t poisonous, it can just feel like it’s the one thing that drains you of your entire existence if it’s handed to the wrong person. #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #confession #mindblown
No, he discarded me like I was trash. You don’t do that to people you love or are thankful for.
2026-05-27 12:51:41
2004
ReallyRah💅🏽✨ :
Why do so many of us empaths meet/get with avoidants 😭😭😭
2026-10-27 21:43:51
5
Tamsin Elizabeth :
And in the meantime it breaks us empaths
2026-05-27 08:47:41
1528
JaxVerdeana :
I’m convinced this is mental illness
2026-07-22 14:37:40
82
fz03 :
as an anxious i cant believe this
2026-05-27 05:32:14
756
e l l i e 💜 ✨ :
showed him i wouldn’t leave just for him to leave lol
2026-05-27 20:30:18
474
pb :
i don’t get it though if he’s so thankful why leave me first if i’ll never leave ever
2026-05-27 04:54:11
273
campbellmark431 :
This is such bs.
2026-05-27 23:28:55
51
Mihri 🌸 :
my nervous system is done as an empath
2026-05-27 11:34:16
388
Ronniefromfarfaraway :
nah, we get discarded and we never meant anything to them. They rather choose someone else and then take away we ever made them happy.
2026-05-28 02:34:12
80
Micaiah :
Man he hated me bffr, the way he left, he HATEDDD me
2026-05-27 16:47:55
88
slayersnb :
Why search for me in someone else. I’m right here.
2026-05-27 15:10:14
105
SheSh :
as a former avoidant, may I ask why does my avoidant ex made me the villain in his story after I ended the relationship? Like I dont get it, when he was begging for me to try again with him I refused and ignored him because I was protecting myself to go soft again and go back to him for the 3rd time. I wanted to be firm with my decision this time. I kept ignoring him until he kinda got mad at me. He tells others and to himself too I guess that I just left him behind when for me I did not. I literally stayed a lot and gave him a lot of chances that is why we were on and off. Also before I left I chose to be loving and grateful with him even I have the right to be mad and in pain. I talked to him and everything before I left..I didnt just left him. I was also clear to him not to chase me after or to beg anymore but he still did in the end...he even said sorry, he even told himself that he was really wrong and that he understands my reasom of leaving and that he shouls have done better. He said all those during the times he was begging. But now he turned ice cold, he is so mad at me too like he paints me as someone who just brought disaster in his life where he is thankful he is already healing to and he is thankful that the disaster with me happened becauas it brought him back to himself. I dont get it.
2026-08-13 15:22:50
0
dancerinthedirt48 :
I’m thankful he showed me everything I’m not looking for.
2026-05-28 21:15:59
45
AURAx :
No, they just love themselves.
2026-05-28 14:50:16
22
sohardtofindausername13 :
I don’t care anymore…
2026-05-27 19:20:00
14
✨Kris✨ :
I sat with him through his darkest times and he left me alone to deal with mine
2026-07-19 21:39:45
6
🖤 :
you don't throw away the one that loved you more than anything like trash. like they meant nothing. that's not love. that's abuse.
2026-07-20 19:25:57
8
ScooterBug :
That’s really hard to believe.
2026-05-31 05:41:35
9
Honeyb81 :
I even told him” I will love you flaws and all. You do not have to worry bout me abandoning you” and he still discarded me like I was nothing. We were best friends for four years first. Now. Nothing.
2026-05-27 20:20:17
11
GreenEyes.85 :
Gave him another chance after he discarded me twice. He started pulling away and I knew it was coming, and I told him I wasn't leaving and I wanted us and I wanted him. And it wasn't enough. No amount of telling him I loved him was going to make him stop his discard. I told him in the beginning when I gave him another chance if he did it again I would block him to protect myself from him. I love him but I can't keep doing it
2026-05-27 05:16:43
159
Noe Ramirez :
We all want the same thing why can't we just communicate?
2026-05-27 14:30:46
29
To see more videos from user @bustuh, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.