I personally feel that 2 weeks is enough time to know if you want to date someone 🤷🏻♂️
2026-05-27 13:29:14
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Sawyer :
People need to remember that dating ≠ exclusive/being boyfriend or girlfriend and you can fully back out after a few dates if you don’t like them.. bring back dating culture and not talking-stage-situation-ship-failure culture
2026-05-27 21:50:46
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kaya.r.rose :
I personally know if I wanna be with someone after a month max. It shouldn’t take months to know what you’re feeling
2026-05-28 11:35:14
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Nalexander :
The “talking stage” is the talking before the first date happens. Dating is when you’re going on dates.
2026-05-28 20:45:32
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camcomins :
just ended a 4.5 month talking stage. we really liked each other and i know she wasn’t doing anything behind my back, but like how does it take you that long to decide yk
2026-05-28 02:10:33
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7️⃣ :
Talk for a hour then go on a date same day, we finna either be soul mates first day or a failed experiment 🤣🤣
2026-05-27 08:57:43
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sullythescientist :
i just think there's no timeline to happiness. if you wanna take it slow and that works, great! if you wanna be official a week into the dating stage, great! only way to learn what you like and don't like is just to do it :)
2026-05-28 11:50:33
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sienna :
exactly. honestly even after a month i’m pissed off.
2026-05-28 05:58:42
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Zoey Nicole :
Don’t settle yall. I kept having that issue until I found my bf. He told me 3 weeks in that he loved me so I said does this establish we’re in a relationship and he said yes please. It was that simple. If it’s not that simple then he’s not the one.
2026-05-28 14:52:30
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Lilac :
We’ve been talking for like 2 months I wanted the 3 month rule because I wanted to take my time getting to know him as a person and he respected my choice
2026-05-28 23:10:56
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🐆🥞🎱Caylee<33🎱🥞🐆 :
I do agree with this but I will say my 4 month talking stage has now turned into a 4 month healthy relationship 🤷🏻♀️
2026-05-28 03:54:56
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Caidyn Cochran :
3 weeks of talking later🤷🏻♂️
2026-05-28 16:53:34
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Abi :
3 weeks of talking, 3 dates, then he asked me out. It’s that simple.
2026-06-02 17:29:59
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. :
Anyway here’s me and my boyfriend we started dating after a week and a half of talking and iv seen him everyday since 🥹
2026-05-27 22:25:49
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Lia🕷️ :
Yeah I’m dating a guy but we aren’t boyfriend and girlfriend. Ppl that get it get it ppl who don’t don’t.
2026-05-28 22:04:22
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mads :
my bf and i literally started dating after a week 🤷♀️bc why are people spending MONTHS figuring out if they wanna date someone or not...
2026-06-02 14:01:57
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3b3bbb333 :
You guys are right. I realize I may have commitment issues
2026-06-03 11:53:01
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𝐜𝐚𝐦 :
Hot take according to the comments but if someone really wants u then they won’t make it complicated and won’t want to risk losing u by taking too long lol
2026-05-28 17:14:35
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jay🤍 :
i’ve always been a girlfriend after the third date i make it clear i don’t do situations only intentions from day one and it weeds out a lot
2026-05-28 19:39:19
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madds 🤍 :
we’ve been talking for a few months, we would be dating but we’re both not allowed to date so the only choice we have is the talking stage-
2026-05-28 14:25:05
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Jadamonique :
She recently told me she wants to wait at least a year to make things official.. we’ve been seeing each other for about 4 months now, lmfaooo. Why do I feel like I’m getting played with rn bc huhhh??! 😭🤣
2026-05-30 03:38:45
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TheMatMorales :
I wanted to marry my girlfriend 6 months into the relationship. Funny thing she asked me out and approached me. I wasnt even attracted to her at first. She became the most divine beautiful thing that god has ever breathed into reality. And she threw it all away sadly and now im livin the life I wanted to share w her alone🙏😂
2026-05-28 21:47:02
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Jess ✝️ :
Me and my ex skipped the talking stage and just started dating and I feel that’s our biggest issue bc I rushed things
2026-06-02 22:09:31
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Jurnee🥹😎 :
Can we normalize no talking stages? It works trust
2026-05-28 10:31:53
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୭. ིྀ┈shsl hair chopper┈ ིྀ.୭ :
We've been talking for 7 months bc it's genuinely never the right time for either of us but we still love each other. If y'all don't relate to this video, you're still valid. If you relate to this video, you are too.
2026-05-29 05:26:06
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