MirrorMind Talks™
Region: US
Wednesday 27 May 2026 13:13:11 GMT
314363
14932
165
2426
Music
Download
Comments
Evan :
That’s an *insane* and dangerous reframing
2026-05-31 21:29:17
4
Axel :
How is shame narcissistic? That thought would block morals and have us just accept our mistakes and continue... without learning from what made us feel shame in the first place.
2026-05-28 05:36:08
44
dashyup :
Guilt is “I did something wrong”. Shame is “I am something wrong”. Guilt can guide better behavior in the future if you use it for action and don’t dwell there. Shame has no positive benefit. It endorses being stuck, afraid, and not growing.
2026-05-28 20:08:27
82
John Fineout :
That’s actually just blew my mind
2026-05-27 17:59:43
59
Deja ReVue :
Who said anything about changing the past? Shame is knowing the hurt we caused is set in stone.
2026-05-28 21:44:12
32
user997290687312 :
the idea is feeling negative about something will make you less likely to do it again in the future...not change the past. kind of amazed this guy didn't think to say this back...and no one has pointed it out when he recounts this idea?
2026-05-28 13:31:51
10
user3657858075184 :
I never say poor me, I say look how far I’ve come with so little to start with.
2026-05-27 19:13:42
27
CasualWater :
Soo, next time I feel bad, I’ll just remind myself that I’m a lowkey narcissist, to myself? Oh ok. Now I feel better.
2026-05-29 05:54:36
0
Steve Jacobs :
Right, when you feel bad about something awful you did, it’s only because you’re trying to change the past. It’s not at all that you have a normal capacity to feel guilty for your bad behavior, and it’s not like feeling guilty prevents you from repeating the behavior.
2026-05-27 20:47:19
4
Diana 🌺 :
No ? You feel bad because you recognise a moral mistake you undertook in a certain context . You feel bad to recognise that in the future if such a situation arises you will need to change how you engage .
2026-05-31 20:30:14
2
mojoe899 :
But it’s not narcissistic its called a conscious
2026-05-28 15:32:05
12
Edzo :
so if you feel bad for your actions you are self absorbed but if you think of yourself as Batman you are good. got it.
2026-06-11 10:01:22
0
Terra Lynn :
no it makes me want to change bad things in the future. this makes no sense
2026-05-28 14:22:11
4
Manifestation Architect :
Wow interesting way to look at things.
2026-05-30 03:45:51
3
MKUltra77 :
Shame can't change the past ....but it most definitely can and should change the way you act or respond in the future
2026-05-29 11:20:00
7
Cara :
Something to think about. Not sure I buy it.
2026-05-29 15:49:53
5
Yale funn 🌸 :
I read The Pullback Effect six months ago. I didn’t read it just to get my ex back (even though I did). I read it because I never wanted to be in a position where someone could leave and destroy me again. Today I apply these principles in every interaction. The game changed for me.
2026-06-09 21:49:45
1
memez4me :
No problem here if I ignore MY family - which includes the Hughes family.
2026-05-29 02:26:46
0
Michelle Adams779 :
An emotion can't be wrong. How one acts, based on it, can be wrong.
2026-05-29 16:25:28
3
Eva-gift :
Shame is a bag 💼 of poison.
2026-05-28 12:33:29
3
Arturo :
Interesting
2026-05-28 20:40:27
1
Meika Joseph828 :
loveeeeeeee this. getting the impact of your habits, mistake, or how you effected others is growth vs carrying around shame and making it about just you. woww 🔥
2026-05-29 20:09:22
1
XAnaklnX :
Shame is an important emotion to feel momentarily but shouldn't be held onto for long because that defeats its purpose and turns into self loathing which solves nothing and helps no one.
2026-05-28 23:13:06
1
yo :
Feeling isn’t meant to change the past. It’s meant to change the future. Future behaviours in similar situations that you felt bad about
2026-05-28 19:46:32
1
Rainbow's Visit :
well damn fam 😂😳
2026-05-29 07:50:01
1
To see more videos from user @mirrormindtalks, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.
![[16.06.2025] Happy 1st Anniversary, Revenged Love 🎉❤️ Gak nyangka udah 1 tahun aja 😭 Rasanya baru kemarin kita kenal RL. Buat kita ini baru setahun, tapi buat para aktornya ini udah berjalan 2 tahun 🥹. Makasih buat kalian yang masih stay, masih support, dan masih meramaikan fandom ini sampai skrng 🫶✨❤️ #revengedlove #tianxuning #ziyu #zhanxuan #liuxuancheng](/video/cover/7651585853654895893.webp)
