@phoenixpathway: His Lack Of Curiosity Is Simple Disinterest Stop pretending his complete lack of interest in your life is just a harmless communication quirk. He is not an internal processor he is just self absorbed. When you do all the conversational heavy lifting while he stares at his phone you are normalizing being ignored. He treats your life like background noise to protect his own comfort and avoid expending energy on you. Stop volunteering updates he never asks for and watch how fast the dialogue disappears. #relationshipadvice #datingtipsforwomen #feminineenergy #knowyourworth
he knows almost everything about me, but my problem is it feels like he has no interest in me at all. I tell him about my day or try to make conversations, i get disgengaged replies unless it’s something he is interested in-
2026-05-29 04:34:55
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Elissa :
I had to get a tooth pulled. Told him the day several times and asked if I needed a ride home. He said “you’ll be fine.” Never said anymore. The day of he had no clue I was getting it pulled, never said a word. When I got home, he told me his not saying anything was because I didn’t remind him and “that’s on you” and got irate when I told him it was NOT my job to remind him about important things in my life because I never forget about his important events
2026-05-28 17:55:18
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Christy Jo :
Is this because of self absorption? Are they just not interested in us? Maybe don't love us? And how is this fixed/managed? I lived this also. There were times I would just stop talking mid sentence because I knew he wasn't listening.
2026-05-27 15:59:35
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Molly :
Do you offer counseling online or virtually?
2026-07-25 13:00:36
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Just Lindsay :
Sshh my favorite show is on and on today’s episode of “Landon Knows My Husband,” I don’t know whether or not I feel attacked or validated but I’m here for it. Thank you for this ♥️
2026-07-22 13:26:59
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Renee :
he will talk for 2 hours about music or something and its as soon as I enter the same room...
2026-07-12 14:53:56
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Angela ♠️ Studio 254 ❌ :
You be hurting my feelings daily!! 😂 Straight facts. I needed to hear
2026-07-20 13:44:30
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TikToksucks :
Or he can’t remember. Whatever dude
2026-07-28 17:31:39
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Kaseycarp :
Yup AND he is fine with it. That is the really hurtful part.
2026-05-29 11:56:51
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Samantha 💗 :
Ugh my husband is every single one of your videos. It just cements my decision to leave. I got approved to be a surrogate so I'll be getting money from that and will get to leave
2026-07-24 17:10:27
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Lindsay Eastin :
This was so well said. Damn
2026-05-28 03:29:31
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jessd_33 :
I stopped offering information and carrying conversations. He will not talk to me, like he says nothing we just sit in silence unless I ask him something and then it’s a short reply. If I don’t take responsibility for holding conversation it doesn’t happen.
2026-05-27 15:56:22
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thebrunetteartist_ :
When are you gonna ask me out
2026-07-10 17:14:10
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Selena Flournoy :
What is your opinion on a long term relationship (12 years) and both of you work from home and you have spent most of the 12 years together every single day in the same space? Where it feels like the only question he can ask is “ how was your day” but the answer is already known.
2026-06-02 12:33:17
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chantellsparks83 :
One time I stated to him that I wished I had someone who showed interest in my life the way that I did for him and he said that I have my friend who does.
2026-05-28 02:05:15
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Jamie Lynn🦋 :
I tried it and sure enough I am in complete disarray. It’s having a relationship with yourself is what this is.
2026-06-01 20:08:25
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kimlacy0324 :
True words. This is why it is so important we focus on ourselves and keep moving forward
2026-05-30 13:31:49
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Beth ❤️🤍💙🦋🏴 :
Excellent share
2026-05-30 07:16:20
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SunSeeker :
In childhood with my aloof disinterested performance based dad
2026-06-29 15:34:38
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thebrunetteartist_ :
@thebrunetteartist_
2026-07-10 17:14:28
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Blah_Blah_Blah :
You said what I’ve never been able to put in clear words or even understand myself other than telling ppl that we are just “surface level”
2026-05-29 20:23:12
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𝓢𝓽𝓲𝓷𝓸_𝔁𝓸🖤⚡️ :
I have so many girlfriends I’ve wanted to send all your videos to, but no matter how much I have told them they’re just not ready to hear it. I had to learn how to just leave them be 😓
2026-06-17 12:50:17
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DK10 :
I needed this a year ago and can guarantee I will recognize this sooner. Huge thanks!
2026-05-30 08:26:50
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Klaus Gen ❌ :
You speak of the man I was with for 6 years!!! It’s crazy how on point you are about him!!! I excused his behavior for too long!! Now I struggle trying to regulate my nervous system!! 🙏😭🙏 I’m not ok!!! 🙏🙏🙏
2026-07-13 16:41:17
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Tinyspinelli :
I don't think my ex could mention a music artist that just I liked (as opposed to one we both listened to), or even my favourite film after almost 5 years together. Probably doesn't even know my middle name.
2026-07-02 09:21:52
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