@unresolvedz_:

tuan. :

it’s cruel when you yearn for someone to understands the depths of you but are also deathly afraid of being seen

~🖤~ :

That's why I stopped talking

ARIKA💋 :

omg as a Venus in cancer I feel this SOOOOOO much!!! This is me 24/7 😭😭😭😭

_Sally :

"communication" is useless if "understanding" is not present.

️ :

yeah, honestly. I have gone through and had these thoughts too. But as I go further and further down in life, I start to realize that comprehension and emotional intelligence goes a long way. Maybe even further than the simple concept of communication. Because it is true that anyone could explain and go on long tangents about how they're feeling, in detail even. But those words given are meaningless if the person they are being projected to isn't capable of understanding. Sometimes, we need someone to see past the invisible mask and really take in what we really mean by what we say. Someone who could think a bit deeper and be observant towards you as a whole. Someone who remembers the little details you've given in the past and truly SEE you. Because most of the time, when we feel overwhelmed by our own emotions and thoughts. Words seem to escape our minds and we tend to struggle formulating the exact sentence that we have in our minds. I apologize if my way of putting it into words confuse anyone, I am not sure on how to really explain it. But yeah. We all yearn for the level of understanding that puts our loud minds at ease and I do hope that we find that someone somewhere down the road.

Stoykov :

this is so true but deep down you also know that it is not their responsibility to understand you. at the end of the day you only have "YOU". I also gave up to the idea that there's someone who will undarstand me, just to save me from my own expectations of them

GG :

understanding and consideration, the two things I need that took me a very long time to work out, but I need that over nearly everything. Not everyone can give that in a way that works for you

Aayusha :

Better to be unheard than misunderstood✨

🪼⋆.ೃ࿔*quinto c<3🪼⋆.ೃ࿔*:･ :

I swear “Headlock by Celiane Virelle” made me realize how much fear was controlling my decisions without me noticing

liallzzz :

There's a quote that goes "Love is the language of the universe; and like all languages, it comes in dialects" basically there is no rule that says everyone speaks love the same way. Sometimes two people love differently, and that is all it is. Find people who speak your version of love, find people who are willing to LEARN how to speak it, don't settle for mistranslation and confusion.

LEGACY :

Communication isn’t the key,Comprehension is. You can explain a thing a thousand ways, but if they’re not built to understand, you’re just wasting your breath

✿𝓢𝓪𝓴𝓾𝓻𝓪彡 :

artinya :Saya menghabiskan waktu yang lama berpikir bahwa komunikasi adalah segalanya. Sampai suatu hari, saya menyadari bahwa yang saya cari bukanlah komunikasi, melainkan pengertian. Anda bisa duduk di sana selama berjam-jam, menjelaskan bagian terdalam dari pikiran Anda, mencoba mengungkapkan perasaan Anda dengan kata-kata, berusaha agar orang lain benar-benar mendengar apa yang Anda katakan. Namun, jika orang tersebut tidak mau mendengarkan Anda, maka semua itu akan berubah menjadi kebisingan yang tak berarti sama sekali. dan entah bagaimana, itulah perasaan paling kesepian dari semua yang terbuka, rentan, mengungkapkan isi hati Anda, hanya untuk menyadari bahwa mereka tidak pernah memahami Anda sebagaimana seharusnya.

Nene :

Someone finally put my feelings into words.

Engr. Bon👷🌾🚜 :

Gelo :

silent repost.

c`y :

that means you are currently with the wrong person

Pedro Henrique 🇻🇦 :

tradução?

Payyy :

"Aku menghabiskan waktu lama berpikir bahwa komunikasi adalah segalanya. Hingga suatu hari, aku menyadari bahwa bukan komunikasi yang kucari, melainkan pemahaman. Kau bisa duduk berjam-jam menjelaskan bagian terdalam dari pikiranmu, mencoba mengungkapkan perasaanmu dengan kata-kata, mencoba untuk dipahami, tetapi jika orang lain tidak benar-benar mendengarmu, semuanya berubah menjadi kebisingan yang tidak berarti. Dan entah bagaimana, itulah perasaan paling kesepian dari semuanya—bersikap terbuka, bersikap rentan, mencurahkan isi hatimu, hanya untuk menyadari bahwa mereka tidak pernah memahami dirimu sebagaimana yang kau butuhkan"

aura❤️‍🔥 :

Understanding and consideration

urshinestar :

Âmots~ :

Talking to someone who doesn't care is just screaming into the void, left with the silence you fear..

g :

it just... never gets through.

Sakhuya💋 :

Expressed myself so much only to end up building so much resentment but not even that made me stop loving him

nofrianusdacruz :

just know that i’m here.